When we know someone likes us, do we want to be friends with him? Or when we like someone, can we become good friends with them? This is a question worth thinking about. This article will explore this topic from different angles.
1. Can we be friends?
Many of us feel embarrassed and confused when we know someone likes us. Because if you accept the other person's feelings, it means entering a love relationship; and if you reject the other person's feelings, you may hurt the other person's feelings. In this case, is it possible to be friends with the other person? The answer is yes. As long as there is no big generation gap or conflict between you, you can try to establish a pure friendship relationship.
2. How to be a good friend?
When we fall in love with someone, our first thought may be that we hope to become lovers with them. But if the other person already has a partner or doesn't like you, then you need to change your thinking and try to treat the other person as an ordinary friend. To be a good friend, you first need to keep an appropriate distance and don't be too close or dependent on the other person. Secondly, respect the other party’s opinions and choices, and do not forcefully interfere or accuse the other party. Finally, be sincere and kind and don't put on a fake face in front of your friends.
3. Why can we be good friends?
Although some people think that "there is no pure friendship between men and women," in fact, many people can establish deep friendships with the opposite sex. This is because in modern society, the interactions between men and women have become more and more equal and free. At the same time, we can also get a lot of help and support from friends, such as emotional listening and comfort, care and help in life, etc. Therefore, as long as we maintain this friendship relationship with our heart, we will be able to obtain more happiness and satisfaction.
Whether it is someone who likes you or someone you like, as long as you have something in common and respect each other, you can become good friends. Friendship is a precious treasure that plays a very important role in our lives. Let us cherish every friend and maintain this beautiful emotion with our heart!
