In a relationship, a boy’s dedication to a girl is essential. However, if you pay blindly, girls will only treat you as a cash machine. This article will explore this issue from multiple perspectives.
1. Financial contribution
Many boys believe that spending money can win the heart of girls. So they will spend a lot of money to treat girls to dinner, buy gifts, etc. However, this kind of behavior will only make a girl think that you are a rich guy instead of someone who truly cares about her.
2. Time investment
Boys may sacrifice their time in order to cater to girls’ preferences. For example, go shopping with girls, watch movies, etc. However, if you always arrange your time according to a girl's wishes, then she will think that you have no ideas and opinions of your own.
3. Emotional devotion
Boys may express too much emotion to girls, such as frequent text messages, phone calls, giving gifts, etc. However, if you express your emotions blindly, it will make the girl feel that you are too dependent on her and lack self-worth.
4. Material contribution
Boys may buy various items to meet the needs of girls, such as cosmetics, clothes, etc. However, if you always pay for a girl, she will think that you do not have your own financial ability and independence.
It is necessary for boys to give to girls, but excessive dedication will only make girls treat you as a cash machine. Therefore, in a relationship, boys should maintain appropriate efforts and have their own ideas and opinions. Only in this way can you win a girl's true heart.
