Being a spare tire is essentially the act of waiting to take over. In fact, no one can be moved by the various actions that the spare tire performs for love, only you can be moved.
There are many people who think that as long as they wait, true love will come (will the party never lose money if you wait?). In fact, it is just one-sided fantasy. There are too many uncertain factors in the future. Instead of betting on love in the uncertain future, why not take the initiative to find love through your own efforts?
1. I have always regarded you as a friend
Such girls are actually very likely to have green tea tendencies. On the one hand, they have a boyfriend, and on the other hand, they accept The ambiguous contact of the spare tire, isn't this "I want it all"?
When you think there is a chance, she will say to you "I have always regarded you as a friend", do you think she Are you really so naive? Do you have such close and ambiguous friends of the opposite sex?
When you invest in your backup status, you are destined to be passive in the relationship. She knows that she has already She has seen your obsession with her, and she is using your obsession to extract your value. Enjoying the feeling of being loved is the reason why she has always been ambiguous with you.
Girls can easily dominate the relationship between you, because the status of the relationship between you and the girl is unequal. You are the spare tire and she is the car owner. Even if the spare tire becomes a regular partner, The car owner can also replace the spare tire.
2. You are a good person
A person can always be kind to people he doesn't care about. ——Wilde
When a woman likes a man, she will say "you are so bad". And you being a good person is actually synonymous with dislike.
The good guy card is actually not a good guy, but an idiot and fool in the eyes of women. Turning a spare tire into a regular job is like upgrading an intern to a temporary job. In the eyes of a girl, a spare tire is just a loser and a loser who is incapable of pursuing his own love... You are only valuable to a girl when she needs you.
You said I would think of you when it snows, but it hasn’t snowed for a long time...
3. Receiver
Some girls like to play when they were young, like romantic, romantic, handsome guys who know how to play. They have a relationship with them casually, but they are not good at talking to those who like them but are not good at words. , the ordinary-looking boy looked down upon.
When she finds that she is getting older and starts to look old, she will look for a spare tire around her to be her successor. The spare tire has indeed become a regular person, but she chooses you not because of feelings, but because of feelings. It's because of necessity.
Being a spare tire and waiting for such a woman to turn around, why bother? It is better to find your own significant other.
