Are there girls like this around you? She is average-looking, neither pretty nor ugly, but compared to pretty girls, she has many people pursuing her? If so, what kind of person is she? Let me analyze why so many people pursue average-looking girls?
Many people think that a beautiful girl must be very popular with the opposite sex and be pursued by many people around her. Actually it's not. Whether a girl's relationship with the opposite sex is good or not depends on whether the girl wants it or not. When facing boys, girls who don’t fake smiles, don’t cheer for each other, and don’t put their arms around each other and call each other brothers, no matter how good-looking they are, they won’t be able to form a group of buddies. In the face of pursuit, girls who leave no room, no hints and no ambiguity, no matter how beautiful they are, there will be no "followers" that they "can't get rid of". vice versa.
Many people underestimate the attribute of "passion" that can improve girls' mate selection advantages. In the past, beautiful girls had many suitors around them, so they could stand high and dominate the world. After the brainwashing of public opinion in recent years, many ordinary girls have begun to hold back on the issue of men and women. The warm and considerate girl was immediately highlighted.
They may not be very good-looking, but they know how to open up topics with men, how to empathize with men, and how to make men find a sense of masculine accomplishment in front of her. Even if they are not boyfriend and girlfriend, it is extremely comfortable to have such a girl around you and greet you.
Society has always emphasized that women need men to provide emotional value, but as everyone knows, men actually need it too. Under the influence of this conceptual bias, women who can provide emotional value become particularly valuable.
Although beautiful girls are good, there are many suitors and competition pressure is great. Even if boys want to pursue beautiful girls, they will be discouraged. . Therefore, it is not that many boys do not want to chase beautiful girls, but they know that their strength does not allow it, and even if they chase, there will be no results. Instead of hoping for someone you can't catch, it's better to choose an average-looking girl from the beginning. Such a girl will be easy to catch.
Men pay attention to "availability" in their interactions between men and women. You can observe the people around you, as long as they are not so ugly that you can't kiss them. Any girl with a warm, considerate and gentle personality will not be short of boys to pursue her. Although it is not pleasing to the eye, it is nourishing to the heart.
Summary: In fact, it is not that average-looking girls are more attractive, so many boys pursue them, but because boys, after weighing the pros and cons, choose a girl who they are not so attracted to, but who is not annoying either. Go chase.
