Infidelity, in its essence, is a "betrayal" of marriage. The relationship between people, in any relationship, requires "trust" as the basis. If this "trust" is lost in the relationship between husband and wife, what will happen after cheating? No matter how you forgive or get back together, you will never be happy.
Will you still be happy if you get back together after cheating?
Getting back together after cheating is not about getting back together after a breakup. Getting back together after an affair is a compromise with life and tolerance of reality. It is impossible to completely forgive in the heart. The one who has been let down will always have a thorn in his heart and has not been able to get redemption for a long time.
If a man cheats and the wife chooses to forgive and get back together, it is probably just a superficial illusion. A woman’s revengeful mentality is very scary. She may secretly retaliate against you in the same way and give you the blame. Cuckold! Even perform extreme sexual acts.
Things around netizens: The man had a stable sex partner before marriage, concealed the fact that he was married, and continued to sleep with her after marriage. After the woman found out, she kept it secret and pretended not to know about it. The relationship between the couple is still very good. Later, they got a fake divorce because of the house, and the woman took the house and married another woman.
There will be retribution for cheating
A netizen said: A friend of mine and his wife have been married for many years, and their sons are both in elementary school. As a result, his wife took the 5,000 yuan he just gave her and ran to Shanghai to meet a penniless QQ friend. The two of them stayed in the hotel for a week before returning. After being discovered, his wife actually said that "he writes poems to her every day", and then they divorced. The Shanghai poet did not leave her, and now he lives alone all his life.
People who cheat think they are in two different situations, but the result is that neither party is pleased. The person who cheated on you is definitely not the person who wants to live a serious life with you. The person who entered into marriage with you will also find it difficult to forgive your cheating behavior. You thought you gained two partners, but you will lose both of them. .
Perhaps this is the so-called retribution. Whether in marriage or in life, if you commit prohibited behaviors, you will suffer corresponding consequences. Punishment, if your marriage is not happy, go find someone who suits you after divorce, and never cheat to hurt your home and family.
