In this era, fewer and fewer men actively pursue women, so many women have begun to learn how to pursue boys. So there are questions that many girls have always wanted to ask - why don’t boys take the initiative now?
Maybe many Boys will answer - don't want to be a licking dog, don't want to fall in love... right? Do you don't want to fall in love or don't dare to fall in love? Does the human will choose to go against biological instinct?
Castration, Needless to say, it is a sad thing for a male to lose his sexual ability.
Mental castration means that due to a series of external conditions, men have psychologically lost their sexual ability. When they meet the person they like, they no longer have any sexual impulses in their lives. This is a sadder thing, because at this moment, the body is still intact. To give a simple example, when you meet a woman you like, you have the urge to chase her, but if you think about it carefully, you have nothing now, no house, no car, no future, and the so-called sense of security of ordinary girls requires you to have these, think about it. As soon as I thought there was no chance, I gave up and did not dare to fall in love.
But physiologically, it is intact after all. It can only be solved by relying on the island country's love action movies, or it can't be restrained anymore. They went to the red light district, and some of them made appointments through Momo, Tantan, etc. If you think about it carefully, it is pathological and abnormal after all.
It’s a lie to say that you don’t want to fall in love. In fact, you don’t dare to fall in love. In youth, which is most suitable for falling in love, you don’t have the capital to fall in love (of course, these capitals are in a secular sense)!
It seems that only through your own efforts can you finally step into the threshold of falling in love and pursue the woman you like. However, how can you find the true love back then? The saddest thing is - having the capital to fall in love, But I can no longer believe in love.
It is really a very sad thing to be spiritually castrated in the years when you are the most youthful, excited and sexually active.
[Delayed gratification] may be a sensible approach, but delay may not necessarily lead to satisfaction. If you don’t have money now, you may not be satisfied in the future. Still no money!
You don’t need money to chase girls. Having no money is just your excuse. This excuse will become in the future - no car, no house, not handsome, old, don’t understand women. Heart...
The fear of falling in love and the inability to fall in love are the essence of the "spiritual castration" of today's single men. Is this the tragedy of the times? Or is it a tragedy that belongs to you alone?
