The union of a marriage is the joint promotion of love and marriage. We cannot allow temporary willfulness and out-of-control emotions to wantonly destroy this "family + love" relationship.
After marriage, there are times when you are happy and times when you are unhappy. You can have the idea of ??divorce, but you cannot become a puppet of this idea. Only by restoring the marriage with your heart, continuing to maintain the relationship, and restoring peace to the family can you It is the best choice for couples.
1. Respect each other and understand each other
Many couples have marital discord because of some things that cause them to lose their standards. And the bottom line is that if you control each other or be controlled by the other party in your marriage, such an unequal marriage will inevitably lead to "contradictions and conflicts"!
Husbands and wives do not have to be equal and respectful to each other, but they should also respect each other, understand each other, and maintain Only when the relationship between husband and wife is good can the family live in harmony and the marriage be smooth and smooth.
When disagreements occur, do not forcefully blame the other party, blame the other party, or criticize the other party. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes. Only by understanding and respecting the other party can you gain the trust and dependence of the other party.
2. Keep your mouth shut to avoid quarrels
Husband and wife live together because of their personality, family Due to differences in habits, cognitions, etc., there will always be times when two people have different opinions. If two people are too serious and keep chattering about trivial matters, it will inevitably escalate from a bickering to a quarrel!
Frequently Belittling each other verbally, or insulting each other when they disagree, is a very harmful behavior in a marriage. It is essentially a kind of verbal violence, which will worsen the relationship between husband and wife and make the relationship cold.
Whether you are a husband or a wife, you need to control your mouth, stop criticizing, and be grateful for praise and encouragement. Only in this way will the family be more harmonious and warm, and marriage recovery will be effective.
3. Rational communication and peaceful communication
It is the first time for many couples to get married. , lack of experience and coping ability. When encountering conflicts, they often blame the other party and fail to reflect on themselves.
After conflicts occur, there is rarely a time for rational communication and peaceful exchanges, and they often end up in the form of a "cold war".
When conflicts occur in your marriage, if you are unable to communicate rationally, you can listen to the opinions of your family and friends and let them help your marriage restore the relationship, get back to the old relationship, and return to the past. In peace.
