There are many men who feel that the development between themselves and girls is too slow, and they feel that they cannot see hope in the future. They are also afraid that it is because the girls don’t like them enough. There are also many disadvantages to developing too fast. Let’s analyze for everyone what are the dangers of developing relationships too quickly? How to control a relationship that develops too fast!
1. The dangers of developing relationships too quickly
1. There is no emotional foundation. Many young men and women actually get together without knowing it. When they see each other right, they add each other on WeChat, chat and flirt every day, and unknowingly establish a relationship. They get to know each other quickly, progress quickly, and there is no emotional basis. The breakup was quick and no one took it seriously.
2. Unwilling to spend time getting to know someone. After many men and women get used to fast-food love, they no longer want to spend time and sink their hearts to understand someone. They feel that it is too tiring to slowly get to know someone. They only need a little response from the other person to be satisfied. Of course, such a relationship cannot last long. .
3. No longer believe in love. Some men and women develop too quickly in their first relationship, which leads to subsequent problems: they don’t understand, they don’t trust, they use too much force and don’t get corresponding rewards... Slowly, they no longer love as they did before, and they no longer care about love. Have illusions.
If your relationship develops too quickly, not only will you not be able to get the love you ideally want, but you will also find out later that you have devoted yourself wholeheartedly at the beginning. That's not the case at all. Instead, you become discouraged about love, so it's not a good thing for love to develop too quickly.
2. How to control a relationship that develops too fast
When two people in love feel that their feelings are developing too fast, they find that sometimes they talk too much, and occasionally they suddenly Needless to say, there are some days when the whole day is not sweet. Don't panic at this time, just do your own thing and have some fun when it's normal. It's also good for the two of you to have a little time to relax. Even if the relationship is not sweet, don't worry. As long as the other person is always there and willing to spend this period of love with you, slowing down the development of the relationship, the ending can be reversed.
Then, I suggest that you both have a serious face-to-face discussion about what your needs are for each other, and at the same time tell each other what your bottom line is, what I like, what you like, what you like but I don’t. What should we do if we like it? Really, tell it openly and honestly, let us know each other better and see if you can still go on for a long time.
Generally speaking, romantic love will become difficult one day. If you develop too fast, it will shorten the romance. time, because they soon became like an old married couple. Although you both want to chat with each other, you feel that the conversation is not enough, or that what you say is basically an extension of the previous sentence. But progress that is too slow may make one partyGive up, so you still need to control the rhythm of love yourself.
