I like a girl and want to chase her, but find that I take the initiative every time I chat. The girl never takes the initiative to send a word, but every time she replies, she is more positive. What does this situation mean?
< p style="text-align: center;">1. Girls are reserved
Girls never take the initiative to look for you, but what does it mean if they reply instantly on WeChat? Let’s analyze the girls’ behavior Psychology: I like a little brother very much, but I don’t want to chat with him. If he sends a message, I will definitely reply immediately. Why don't you take the initiative to find him? Because I'm afraid that if I take the initiative, he will look down on me! Due to this mentality, no matter how much I like you, girls will not take the initiative, but like to accept you passively.
Since most girls are relatively reserved, they don’t dare to show too much attitude towards the person they like, but they will try their best to cooperate with the boys’ actions. For example, reply instantly on WeChat, agree to a date, etc. Guys, if you like this kind of shy girl, don’t give up pursuing her just because she never takes the initiative to find you. You can judge whether she is interested in you by the time and content of her reply to your WeChat message.
2. Reply politely
Some girls never take the initiative to find you, but they will reply to you instantly via WeChat. What? Maybe they are free and reply to you out of politeness. Because you initiated this topic. But please don’t get me wrong, it’s just normal communication. This is actually an illusion of goodwill created by oneself.
How to judge? Look at the content and frequency of her immediate replies. If you are basically talking alone in WeChat chats, and she only replies to you with a few short sentences, or replies with um, oh, expressions and no substantive content, then you may need to pay attention. She is not interested in you, and she will reply to you immediately on WeChat just out of politeness.
Girls never take the initiative to find you, but what does it mean when they reply instantly on WeChat? Which of the above two situations do you belong to? If a girl is reserved, then she wants you to be more proactive. She cares about you more, but is shy! At this time, you, as a boy, need to be more proactive. If a girl replies to you out of politeness, then you may need to think of ways to change your current situation, such as attracting her. If you can't change it, then you can try to give up.
