Dating is a traditional way of finding a suitable partner by getting to know each other. After a blind date, we often wonder whether the other person likes us and how to ask the other person how they feel. Several aspects will be discussed below.
1. Observe the other person’s words and deeds
During the blind date, we can judge whether the other person likes us by observing his or her words and deeds. If the other person takes the initiative to talk to you and shows strong interest, then it is very likely that he has a good impression of you. If the other person frequently smiles and looks at you through body language, it is also a good clue.
However, sometimes people hide their true feelings, so just observing their words and deeds cannot completely determine whether the other person likes them. .
2. Observe the other person’s words and expressions
In addition to observing the other person’s words and deeds, we can also understand the other person’s feelings by observing their words and expressions. When we ask someone if they like us, we can pay attention to their answers and expressions. If the other person answers in the affirmative and has a happy expression, you can judge that he has a good impression of you. On the contrary, if the other party answers vaguely or has a cold expression, it may mean that he is not very interested in you.
3. Indirect inquiry
After a blind date, we can also use indirect inquiry to understand the other person’s feelings. For example, we can mention some love-related topics to each other and observe their reactions. If the other person actively participates in the discussion and expresses a desire for love, it can be inferred that he has a good impression of you.
We can also ask the other person about his life plans, future plans and other questions to understand whether he is considering including himself in it. If the other person is willing to share this private information and mentions that he hopes to have a partner to accompany him through the future, then it is very likely that he is interested in you.
4. Direct inquiry
The most direct and effective way is to directly ask the other party how they feel. . When we want to know if the other person likes us, we can honestly express our thoughts to him and ask him if he feels the same way. This can avoid misunderstandings and guessing, and directly understand the other party's true thoughts.
However, direct inquiry also requires attention to the method and timing. We should choose a suitable time and occasion and use a gentle tone to express our thoughts to avoid putting too much pressure on the other party.
5. Comprehensive judgment
After the blind date, we can judge whether the other party likes us by comprehensively observing and asking the above aspects. Everyone has different expression methods and personality characteristics, so we need to make comprehensive judgments based on the specific situation.
Want to know about the other person after the blind dateIt's normal to ask someone if they like you and how they feel. By observing words and deeds, watching words and expressions, indirect inquiry and direct inquiry, we can better understand the other party's feelings and make correct judgments.
