In the process of contacting girls, I found that girls care more about details than boys, such as the location of seats, the time of meeting and dating, the number of movies, the style of clothes... while boys are often careless. I don’t know the details of what the girl said, which makes the girl dissatisfied with the date, dissatisfied with the boy, and unwilling to continue to have contact with the boy. This is also the reason why many boys and girls gradually stop having contact with each other. Let’s analyze for everyone the details of what the girl said.
1. Let you pay more attention to her
Generally speaking, if a girl often mentions it to you to pay attention to details and gives you hints in this regard, she actually does not want you to do it. What, I just want you to pay more attention to her, which means that she really loves you, and she wants you to spend more time on girls and care more about girls. At this time, you should feel lucky, because just like me The last sentence you said, if she mentions this, it means that she still loves you, but if one day she feels indifferent to your behavior, and she will not get angry and mess around with you because of your details, then It means she is disappointed and she doesn't love you anymore.
2. Remember special days
Girls pay more attention to rituals, such as Valentine's Day and Chinese Valentine's Day. , 520 Needless to say these days, there is a huge wave of advertisements coming before the festival, making it difficult for you not to remember. And other special days, such as girls' birthdays, your anniversaries, girls' menstrual periods... If you can remember these days and prepare gifts and black tea in advance, girls will definitely feel very warm. If you really can't remember it, take a minute to record it in advance on your phone's calendar, you deserve it.
3. Notice things that she didn’t pay attention to
@MUMURAN: I was with a junior high school classmate before (The boys) went home together. Because we lived very close to each other, we walked together, but my house was farther away, so I got off the bus last. At first I said to hail a car on the side of the road, but he said forget it. He had already called an online car-hailing service. Then we waited for the online car-hailing service. It wasn’t until he got off the car at the end that I discovered that it turned out to be an online car-hailing service. You can see if I get home safely, and I don't have to pay for the car. I think this is the detail. Although it didn’t cost much, and he didn’t take it when I sent him a red envelope later, this detail really warmed my heart.
In fact, the details the girl said boil down to whether you can put yourself in her shoes, show appropriate care, and care about her every day. , active contact, normal emotional output and centered on her. Many girls may not take the initiative to tell boys the details that they care about. If boys don't pay attention, girls will slowly accumulate them in their hearts until they are tired.After accumulating to a certain extent, it was time for her to leave. . If you really don’t know what a girl wants or needs, I really recommend asking directly, because not responding and just relying on guessing can be really self-defeating.
