I don’t know if you have ever heard of the “Three Chapters of a Couple’s Agreement”. Many people may think it is unnecessary, but what I want to say is that if you really want to go on a good journey, it is necessary to make a three-part agreement, so today I will The editor has brought you three chapters about covenants between lovers. Let’s take a look together.
1. About money
One fact must be acknowledged: material is the basis of emotion. You don't need to live a luxurious life, but you must have financial awareness. If both of you are confused, they will inevitably quarrel over money in the future.
1. Keep an eye on your own small wallet
If you wonder about a certain item’s bill every year, “Did I spend so much money?”
Then start from Now start practicing accounting. There are many useful small programs on your mobile phone, such as "Shark Accounting, Grapefruit Accounting". Record every expense and develop a habit. When buying something, you will subconsciously consider whether it is worth it. Unexpectedly saved a lot of money!
2. Joint financial management
After marriage, the financial power of the small family must also be jointly managed. I made an agreement with her on the total monthly income. I used the "532" rule: "50% daily expenses + 30% savings + 20% pocket money fund"
This 20% pocket money You can use it to reward yourself, or you can both save it as travel funds. Only when you have a common goal can you stop doing moonlighting.
2. About housework
If you don’t want romance to be wasted by trivial matters, the distribution of housework becomes very important. Whoever is better at cooking will have to do the dishes.
If the other party takes the initiative to mop the floor, reward them with “one hour of undisturbed game time” or “10-minute massage coupons.” With rewards and interactions, housework becomes something to look forward to, and it will naturally not happen. resentment.
3. Regarding differences
During the running-in period of a relationship, differences, big or small, may arise. Arguments are inevitable, so we make it a rule.
1 Don’t be angry at the previous night
Most of the quarrels are because there are no steps, and the more the arguments get more fierce, the problems of the day will be solved on the same day and will never be left to the next day. (After all, sulking is not good for your thyroid~).
2. Don’t use breakup/divorce as a threat
Except for issues of principle, the remaining differences can be resolved through communication. If you know the importance of the other party, don’t test it by stabbing someone with a knife!
This "Three Chapters of Agreement" can be regarded as a promise to the other party, so quickly list it out with him and urge the other party to follow it!
