Girls you meet on a blind date are easier to pursue than girls you meet on social media. After all, both parties come with the idea of ??finding a partner, so if contact information is exchanged, it proves that the chances of follow-up are relatively high. So how exactly should you pursue a girl on a blind date?
1. Preparation before the blind date
You are very interested in the girl and the girl also likes you. If you are interested, we will make an appointment to meet at this time.
First of all, you must choose a good-looking outfit, with priority given to those who are tall and slim. Needless to say, the beard must be clean and tidy. If you find it difficult to style it yourself, just spend dozens of dollars to go to a barber shop to get one.
It is best to choose an afternoon. If it is in the morning, the girl may be reluctant to get up. Even if she comes, the date will become very tiring. If it is in the evening, the girl may be very insecure. I recommend the location to be in a coffee shop. The cost is not too high and the environment is good.
When you see a girl, you must behave like a gentleman. Hand the menu to the girl first. If the girl has difficulty choosing, take the initiative to recommend one to the girl. Remember, it is the same one.
As for the content of the chat, try to talk about some hobbies and interests, and then extend it to your own hobbies and lead the direction of the topic, so that girls will think that you are an interesting man.
Of course, we may inevitably have our household registration checked. At this time, you have to remember to respond more interestingly. You have to know that girls are really bad at continuing the topic. If you reply to her directly, you may really get cold feet.
For example:
Female: "What do you do?"
Male: "House seller"
Female: "Oh"
Although it is a girl who starts the topic, we must also control the direction of the topic and bring the girl into our conversation. In the environment.
Female: "What do you do?"
Male: "When it comes to this job, I'm pretty good at it."
Female: " What is it?"
Male: "Responsible for finding a warm home for everyone"
Female: "What on earth is it?"
Male: "Selling a house ”
2. Development after the blind date
The advantage of a blind date is that both parties have relatives and friends to match them. , so girls feel safe enough.
After we have done the above two points, I believe it will not take long to directly confirm the relationship between the couple. This is also the charm of blind dates.
Although we are sure that the relationship will be fast, the connection between each otherThe feeling is not ready yet. So we have to date more girls from now on.
Do more things that couples would do, such as going to movie theaters, kitchen bars, cake DIY and other private places. This can make up for the lack of connection between the two.
Don’t be in a hurry to have a substantial relationship with a girl. If a girl agrees to go on a second date with you, it may actually mean that she is attracted to you. At this time, we just need to let it develop slowly.