Many boys don’t dare to pursue girls because they think they are not handsome enough, not good enough, and will not please girls. In fact, girls are not as complicated as you think. She just states these conditions. If you meet a girl who can Those who give themselves a sense of security will still fall. Next, I will tell you what the correct mentality should be when chasing girls.
What is the correct mentality to have when chasing girls?
1. You don’t have to be too good
Many boys feel that if they are not good enough, they are not worthy Someone you like. For example, your academic qualifications are not high enough, your income is not enough, and your future is not good enough. Girls don’t have to worry about this problem.
In fact, many girls think the same way, and are also afraid that they are not good enough and are not worthy of the boy they like.
Because girls are very insecure, they are more likely to overthink than boys. If her boyfriend is too good, she will be afraid of not being able to keep up with him.
So many times, you don’t need to worry that you are not good enough to chase the girl you like, and you don’t need to pretend to be outstanding in front of girls. Maybe you are better than you think?
2. Don’t be too handsome
If you are better If you are not excellent, you can change it through hard work. If you are handsome or not, you don't seem to have much room for manipulation.
So in the face of the cruel fact that girls all like handsome guys, yes, being handsome is harmful to girls.
But reality is not an idol drama. Although it is an eternal truth that girls like handsome guys, it does not mean that they must find handsome guys as boyfriends.
After all, there are always girls who look at handsome guys, so many girls don’t really regard handsomeness as the first criterion for choosing a mate.
You really don’t have to worry about not being handsome enough. Clean yourself up and look fresher, learn some dressing skills to brighten up the atmosphere. After cleaning up, who will be so ugly that you can’t even see it?
3. It doesn’t need to be too warm
Most girls enjoy the feeling of being taken care of meticulously, but they only like the little sun that warms them, not the central air conditioner that warms everyone.
The fatal problem of low-ranking warm men is that they are so warm that they have no sense of boundaries, they release their enthusiasm to everyone, and they are very considerate. As a result, most girls will choose to keep a distance from him.
So, if you like a girl, you must give her the feeling of being preferred and make her feel unique, even if she is unique to you, you are as good to her as to anyone else. It's different. This kind of warmth can warm her heart and make her unable to live without you.
4. Don’t be too good at flirting
In the process of chasing a girl, you really don’t need to be too good at flirting. Sometimes, being nervous and dull will make you look It's very real, very simple, you are sincere to her
Although, boys who are humorous and flirtatious are indeed very popular, but girls also think that he is so "good", right? Have you dated many girlfriends? Do you have a lot of female friends around you? Are you Neptune? Do you just want to play with me?
On the contrary, it makes many girls feel scared.
In contrast, even if you don’t understand humor and can’t speak, as long as you are sincere enough when facing a girl, your expression may be very nervous, your palms are sweaty, and you may be cautious when you help her...< /p>
Anyway, let me tell you, these little details make people feel more cute. After all, love words can deceive people, but these details cannot deceive people.
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