It is said that marrying a wife determines what your next generation will be like, so many boys tend to choose smart, rational and independent girls as girlfriends or even wives. But it’s not that easy to woo a smart, rational, and independent girl. If a boy wants to pursue her, he’d better do what she likes. So what kind of boy would a smart, rational, and independent girl choose to be her boyfriend? Let’s analyze it for you below.
1. Have a strong heart
Human beings are a unity of rationality and sensibility, and everyone’s inner heart actually needs balance. Girls who are smart, rational and independent do not always live rationally. Rich emotional experience and communication are the scarcest nutrients for their inner health. Because rationality is a further development and sublimation based on sensibility, as a rational person, her emotional needs will of course be more advanced, and they cannot be satisfied by ordinary tricks. So if you want to attract this type of girl, I'm afraid you need to first read more, think more, constantly enrich yourself, and have a strong heart. When you cultivate a mind full of fun, you can create a powerful aura and release the power to move people's hearts.
2. Her intelligence is equal to or better than hers
Girls who are smart, rational and independent are generally more Being strong, she is actually at a disadvantage when men and women get along. Because if a girl is more rational than a boy, the boy will feel too embarrassed and feel that he cannot control such a girl, and will lose his self-confidence more easily. In this way, it is easy for two people to get along with each other and cause conflicts. Only when reason connects and communicates with reason can two people go on harmoniously.
Of course, whether a person is smart or sensible cannot be changed in a short period of time. If you are indeed inferior to girls in this aspect, but you really don’t want to give up on her and still want to chase her, you can It's not impossible. But another prerequisite is that you have to admit that she is smart, rational and independent, and that you are willing to work hard for her when faced with her excellence and slowly keep up with her. If you can work hard to change, then you can talk to her about your ambitions and plans, and the hope is still high.
3. Respect and understand her
A girl who is smart, rational and independent will not do anything when facing love. Love brain, she has her own set of logic when looking at problems and making decisions, and it is difficult to change. Such a girl's wisdom sees the long term and finds the key points accurately. When faced with a boy's pursuit, she actually doesn't consider how much you feel for her first, but considers the possibility of you being together and responds to you. Make some suggestions or make some requests. She knows that it is difficult to change someone, so she does not accept you in a hurry, nor rejects you immediately. Instead, she tries to help you, and she is also helping herself to wait and see.
