Increasing trust in each other is key to building a strong relationship, here are some ways to increase trust:
1. Honesty and Transparency: Always maintain open and honest communication. Don't hide facts or lie, even if the truth may upset the other person.
2. Consistency: Maintain consistency in words and deeds. Make sure your actions match your words so the other person believes you are a reliable person.
3. Commitment and Responsibility: Do your best to fulfill the commitments you make. If you cannot fulfill your promise, explain the reason promptly and do your best to remedy it.
4. Respect and understanding: Respect each other’s feelings and opinions, even if you disagree. Try to understand the other person's position rather than just seeking your own interests.
5. Listen and support: When the other party has difficulties, listen patiently and provide support. Show that you care about the other person's feelings and experiences.
6. Shared experiences: Deepen mutual understanding and trust through shared experiences and activities. Whether it's everyday things or special adventures, shared memories can deepen your connection.
7. Conflict resolution: When disagreements arise, resolve them in a mature and peaceful manner. Avoid pointing fingers and arguments and instead look for shared solutions.
8. Maintain independence: Trust also means allowing the other person to have their own space and independence. Don't be overly controlling or dependent on the other person.
9. Show gratitude: Express your gratitude to the other person frequently and let them know you value them.
10. Time and Patience: Trust is not built overnight, it requires time and sustained effort. Give the other person time to get to know you, and give yourself time to get to know the other person as well.
11. Confidentiality: Protect the other party’s privacy and secrets, and do not disclose information that the other party is unwilling to disclose.
12. Ask for help: If you are having trouble building trust, don't be afraid to seek help from a professional, such as a counselor or marriage counselor.
Remember, trust is built on a series of small things, and each honest communication and fulfillment of a promise will gradually enhance mutual trust.