When you get married or fall in love, you still have to care about the worldly perspective, otherwise you will always feel like someone will point fingers at you when you go out. But sometimes you can't say for sure when it comes to relationships. Many times, when people around you don't like your relationship, you just want to make it to the end. For example, if you fall in love with a second-married woman, is it embarrassing for a man to marry a second-married woman?
1. Do you care about the opinions of outsiders?
In fact, no matter what kind of woman a man marries, the couple will ultimately live a life together, and the opinions of outsiders are actually not that important. But in fact, even if you don’t mind if you are the first man to marry the second woman, and you think there is true love between you, even if your parents agree on the surface, they will not be reconciled and will be sad. If your relatives and friends don’t say it to your face, they will definitely laugh at you behind your back. . When you ask yourself the question "it's embarrassing to marry a second-married woman", it means that you care more or less about other people's opinions.
Of course, if you think that marrying a second-married woman is your own business and has nothing to do with outsiders, you don’t care what outsiders think of you. , just the two of you live peacefully behind closed doors, and the lives of the two of you are getting better and better, so it is not shameful for a man to marry a second-married woman.
And in real life, most first-married men marry second-married women. Generally, they are people with very low economic or personal conditions. When they reach the marriage age, they really can’t afford a wife, so they choose second-married women. Yes, in this case, don't talk about whether it's embarrassing or not. Let's get a wife first.
2. The situation of second-married women
In fact, don’t be too discriminatory against second-married women. Sometimes a woman’s previous divorce is not her problem. It may be her ex-husband’s cheating, domestic violence, The relationship between the two people broke down... The woman actually made no mistakes in her previous marriage, and she was also considered a victim in her previous marriage. There is nothing to be ashamed of in marrying a second-married woman like this. She is not someone who is invisible to others. Her courage to divorce and pursue happiness is worthy of your serious consideration.
But if the woman you choose for your second marriage has poor moral character, she had hookups with others in her previous marriage, which led to divorce. , in this case, it may not be a wise move for you to marry a second-married woman. One is that it is difficult to change a person's character, and you cannot guarantee that she will be able to live a stable life with you after marrying you; the other is that you have to face the eyes of the outside world, after all, marrying a daughter-in-law who behaves badly is not a good idea. No matter how glorious it is, this relationship may have been a mistake from the beginning. You will also wonder if she will betray you one day. It is difficult to build trust between two people.
So, whether it is shameful for a man to marry a second-married woman depends on your own thoughts, and whether the second-married woman you marry is worthy of your marriage.
