Question: My girlfriend and I are not too young. I am 37 and she is 35. We have been together for more than a year. Her family felt they couldn't accept me and thought she could find someone better. My personal conditions: a second-tier city (not a first-tier city or above or almost a first-tier city), 2 houses, a car, and several million assets. My girlfriend’s family background, career, and education are all better than mine. She wanted to go on a blind date for a few months and then come to me if she couldn't find a good one. I think she may not be able to find the right one on a blind date at her age, so I want to talk her out of it. Can you guys help me with what I should do?
What should I do if my girlfriend wants to go on a blind date?
Answer: Your girlfriend still wants to go on a blind date even though she has a boyfriend. To be honest, this is quite unethical. It's like the first food stall is your favorite barbecue, but do you want to change the taste today? So I walked forward to see what so many people were eating at the stall in front of Wu Yang Wu Yang. If you come across something that looks fresh and is said to be delicious, you might try some. If you walk around and don't find anything you want to eat, then go back to the first place and eat the barbecue you are used to eating willingly and peacefully.
Your girlfriend originally chose to be with you and talked with you for more than a year. However, under the pressure of her family, she also became distracted. No. I resigned myself to it, thinking that if there was a more suitable one, I would change you. If there was no suitable one, at least I could silence my family, and I could come back to you. It was absolutely foolproof.
But if you go on a blind date when you have a boyfriend, this is out of control, out of control, and impossible to deal with. Maybe she will meet someone with better conditions after going on a blind date, and then you will have nothing to worry about. It's also possible that she really meets the person she's satisfied with, but the other person may not necessarily like her, so she still has to come back to you.
It seems like it’s nothing to do with you, but she actually doesn’t care about your feelings when she does this. She can put forward ideas. Going on a blind date is such an outrageous suggestion, but it means I don’t love you much, right?
You can let go completely now, cut the kite string, and let it fly by itself; or you firmly believe that the string is in your hand anyway, and it will be a matter of time before it flies back, then Just do nothing, just wait. It depends on your mentality.
What I also want to say is that she may be able to find someone better, and you may also find someone handsome and rich, but the problem is that the relationship between you and her is not worth mentioning. ? Marriage really doesn’t mean that everyone you marry is the same. Sometimes we value each other’s conditions and weigh the pros and cons, but things like feelings will give you different feelings no matter who you are with. If you really love her, you might as well keep her and don't give her a chance to meet someone else.
