When a couple is having a cold war, no matter how much they hope that their girlfriend can deal with them, no matter how much they hope that the cold war will end soon, no one is willing to end the cold war first. In fact, as long as one person in the Cold War lowers his head and coaxes his girlfriend, the Cold War will be over. Let me share with you how to resolve a cold war with your girlfriend and how to coax her? In fact, it is not embarrassing for a man to bow his head first, but it is conducive to the longevity of the relationship.
1. Apologize and admit your mistakes, and take the initiative to bow your head
Two people who love each other will have disputes when they are together because they have different ideas and concepts; this is inevitable . And when two people have a conflict, one of the girlfriends may feel uncomfortable and will express her unhappiness through cold-war behavior. At this time, if his girlfriend is ignoring him, the man will be angry, but he does not want to leave his girlfriend, so he will also choose to fight in a cold war.
And the Cold War is getting longer and longer, and it is useless to be anxious at this time. Men might as well take the initiative, go to their girlfriend's side, apologize and admit their mistakes; as long as you take the initiative to bow your head and admit your mistakes to your girlfriend; tell her what you didn't do well enough, and tell your girlfriend what you will do in the future. Improvement... Generally speaking, as long as you bow your head proactively, your girlfriend will calm down and naturally won't continue to have a cold war with you.
2. Express love and influence your girlfriend
In fact, when your girlfriend is having a cold war with you, she is also looking forward to when you can take the initiative to lower your head and coax her. But your girlfriend feels that your attitude was not very good when there were conflicts and problems with you before, so she is unwilling to take the initiative to end the cold war with you. At this time, as her boyfriend, you must tell your girlfriend how much love you have for her in your heart; you must let your girlfriend feel how much love you have in your heart; only in this way can you melt your girlfriend's heart. , can your girlfriend be moved by it.
If your girlfriend has been in a cold war with you for a long time and ignores you; at this time, you must express your love to her with sincerity. Emotionalize her. For example, you can say how much you can't live without her. If you don't talk to her for a few days, you feel like dying. At this time, as long as you can make your girlfriend happy, you must say it. So express your love. Love can influence your lover, and you must learn to speak love words.
3. Take the initiative and care for your girlfriend
When your girlfriend has been in a cold war with you for a long time and you don’t know how to resolve it, a man must take the initiative and care for his girlfriend with sincerity. Your actual actions to love your girlfriend. For example, you can make more food for your girlfriend to eat, buy more things that your girlfriend likes and give them to her; propose to take your girlfriend to a place she wants to go but has never been... When you pay more Yes, my girlfriend was naturally moved and alsoI won’t have a cold war with you anymore.
In fact, it was difficult for both of them during the Cold War. After all, they still had feelings, and the two of them were also suffering. At this time, instead of making peace, If my girlfriend is angry, why not bow down and end the cold war first, so we can have a good time together?
