Secret love is a matter of one person, but falling in love is a matter of two people. If in a relationship, only one party takes the initiative, and the other party does not know how to respond to love in a timely manner, it will make the other person feel very tired, which is one of the reasons that easily leads to breakup. Sometimes due to personality reasons, a girlfriend is too introverted and always passive in love. What should we do?
Many Boys actually have a misunderstanding when it comes to falling in love. They think that falling in love means constantly giving gifts to your girlfriend to spend money. In fact, the key point of falling in love is "talking". If two people do not communicate about many things and do not communicate, then it cannot be regarded as a real love. It is called charity because the other person is attracted to a certain advantage, and Just keep giving to her.
This kind of dedication cannot get love. If your girlfriend is too introverted, you should go into her new house and have a heart-to-heart talk with her. People on the inside are afraid of communicating with others. As a boyfriend, you should You should establish a solid sense of trust with girls, so that your girlfriend can talk to you about anything without any worries.
Girlfriends who are more introverted usually don’t know how to actively express their feelings, so they are usually boyfriends in relationships. You want to lead the progress of the relationship between the two, but after your boyfriend takes the initiative, there is still very little emotional feedback, and it is difficult to continue the relationship. In this case, you need to think about whether your girlfriend loves you enough.
If your girlfriend really loves you but doesn’t know how to express her feelings, boys should try to be more tolerant of his girlfriend’s personality and understand her. Although it is tiring to fall in love with an introverted girl, as long as you open up her chat box, you will feel her tenderness. Because an introverted girlfriend will overly suppress her emotions due to her personality. When she releases them, the boy will be moved by this pure love.
From a psychological point of view, the reason why I think it is too tiring to fall in love with an introverted girlfriend is because I feel that my efforts and gains are not asymmetrical. , resulting in a sense of loss. At this time, you should try to guide your girlfriend to open up and show tolerance to her heart!
