Long-distance relationships can be said to be the most difficult of all forms of love. Because they cannot see each other for a long time, girlfriends often get angry because of quarrels. Originally, a hug or a kiss can solve the problem, but boys have to spend more time. If you don’t have much time, let me teach you how to comfort your long-distance girlfriend when she is angry. Come and learn with us.
1. How to comfort an angry long-distance girlfriend
1. Reasons why your girlfriend is angry
Only by understanding the cause of anger can we "prescribe the right medicine".
(1) Random thoughts
The two people in different places usually spend less time together and more apart. In addition, girls are more sensitive, so they will inevitably feel uncomfortable when seeing certain scenes. have a bee in one's bonnet.
The boyfriend posted a photo with other people on WeChat. As long as there is a girl, the long-distance girlfriend will inevitably "fantasize" about various possibilities and feel insecure.
(2) Misunderstandings
If you haven’t contacted me for a few days, your boyfriend will put on a "stinky face" when he comes up. Even if there is a problem at work, but you don’t say it, you will inevitably let him down. The other party feels that this is disgust towards him. Once a misunderstanding occurs, both parties do not explain it. They have their own thoughts and the misunderstanding becomes deeper.
(3) Lack of trust
The scheduled video chat was cancelled. The boyfriend said he had a meeting and was busy with work and had no time. After get off work, he said he was too tired and wanted to rest, and so on. By blocking communication, your girlfriend will inevitably change from initial understanding to various doubts, and her trust will also decrease.
2. Ways to make amends
Knowing the reason for anger is not enough, it is time to take action. .
(1) Admit your mistake when you meet
Arrange your working hours, buy the nearest bus ticket, and go to your girlfriend’s city. Communication over the phone and video is not as serious as talking in person. When you walk up to her, no matter whose fault it is, you must first take responsibility and take the initiative to admit your mistake.
(2) Create surprises
When you go to meet the other person, remember to buy some trinkets or other gifts that the other person likes. Create surprises when they are unexpected and let your girlfriend see how much you love them. Two people's emotional efforts.
(3) Always care
Don’t wait until the weather gets colder or hotter before you care about whether the other person is wearing extra clothes or quilts. You should care about the other person's life every day, and pay timely greetings in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation. If necessary, you can buy clothes for the other person. Even if you don't like the other person's appearance, your sincerity is the best concern.
2. How to comfort your long-distance girlfriend when she is angry
1. Meet
What can’t be explained clearly on the phone is unclear in words. Then we can only talk about it face to face, because what we hear and see is far less real than what is in front of us. When a girl from a different place is angry, she may not answer the phone or reply to messages, but when you stand in front of her, she will be intimidated.
2. Buy gifts
Girls like gifts not necessarily because of vanity, but because these small gifts can really bring them a certain degree of happiness. In this case, why not choose a gift for her that she likes? You will say, she is angry! Will she accept my gift? I will accept it, but you must choose a targeted gift, such as a female Lipstick and bags used. Because they are angry, the moment they see the gift, their reason will prevail.
3. Admit your mistake
When a girl is angry, there is no reason to explain. If you want to coax her quickly and effectively, then admit your mistake to her. But her next sentence will definitely ask you, "What's wrong? How is it wrong?" At this time, you must be confused, because you have no idea what's wrong. At this time, you can't say that you don't know what you did wrong, but you must learn to guide her to tell her what you did wrong. Slowly and slowly she will express her dissatisfaction with you. At this time, you must seize the opportunity. Express your attitude and emphasize that you will correct it next time.
I believe that how to coax a long-distance girlfriend when she is angry is a problem that many boys are troubled by. I believe you should know how to coax her now, so go and try it.
