When women get married, they always yearn for a beautiful married life, but the dull days after marriage will slowly wear away their expectations for married life, and they will gradually feel that marriage is boring. At this time, if there happens to be someone next to a woman who cares about her, it is very likely that an extramarital affair will occur. But paper cannot cover the fire after all. As long as a woman has an extramarital affair, she will be discovered sooner or later. Will a woman's extramarital affair resume after the breakup is discovered?
1. See if the extramarital lover is sincere
In fact, women are very emotional. If she feels that the extramarital lover is sincere to her, then she will never forget it, even if the woman’s extramarital affair is revealed. If she finds out that after breaking up, she will think about rekindling the old relationship; but if she finds out that the extramarital lover is just playing with her, then she will return to reason and will not rekindle the extramarital lover.
@Ms. Cheng: After marriage, because my marriage was not harmonious and my husband didn’t understand me, I found someone with wisdom in marriage life. lover. At that time, I felt that it was true love. After all, I was married and someone would look up to me. I was quite complacent at the time. But then I realized something was wrong. Extramarital lovers often appear to be gentle and romantic. But this kind of tenderness and romance simply cannot stand the test of facts.
I once told my extramarital lover that I had encountered some changes in my life and needed to borrow some money from him. I wanted to test whether he was sincere towards me and wanted to know when I encountered difficulties. Will he lend a helping hand to me without hesitation?
The result was that after he learned that I wanted to borrow money from him, he immediately started pretending not to know me. What he did chilled me deeply. I finally came to the realization that lovers outside marriage are simply unreliable. After I came to this realization, I would not be reluctant to let go of such a lover, because I think unreliable men are not worth lingering on at all.
2. See whether the extramarital affair can be cultivated into a positive outcome
Men may seek extramarital affairs to get together and break up, but many women will think about cultivating a positive outcome once they start an extramarital affair. , a woman wants her extramarital lover to marry her, but often the woman’s ideas come to nothing.
I started having an extramarital affair out of loneliness. I didn't think about divorce at first, but at that time I thought that my extramarital lover was sincere to me, and gradually I came up with the idea of ??asking him to divorce me and marry me, but he always put me off.
The reason why I really gave up was because I secretly followed him. Many times I found him happily walking down the street with his wife and children, and I discovered that he had no intention of divorce at all. When I woke up from this extramarital affair, I completely severed ties with him and never thought of this person again. I felt ashamed of my stupidity.
In fact, the key to whether a woman's extramarital affair will rekindle after she is discovered to have broken up is that the extramarital lover's attitude toward the woman and whether he is sincere to her are actually very clear to the woman after she returns to her senses. Therefore, if you find that a woman is having an extramarital affair and she is willing to return to the family, it is recommended that you give her another chance.
