We generally recommend that couples pay attention to the propriety of their words when quarreling, and do not say anything excessive or hurtful, because many words cannot be taken back once they are spoken. In fact, most boys are very sensible, but girls may not be so sure. What should I do if my girlfriend breaks up as soon as we have an argument and feels very tired?
1. Break up sincerely
If your girlfriend quarrels, break up with her. And if you talk about breaking up frequently, then I suggest that the boy be determined and pretend to break up once. If your girlfriend still loves you and is reluctant to break up with you, she will restrain herself and understand that she shouldn't break up so hastily, and she will pay attention to it in the future. This is your bottom line of principle and cannot be touched, and things will get better gradually.
If your girlfriend is indifferent to your real breakup, or even directly agrees to break up with you, then forget it, she won’t be able to break up with you at all. I don’t love you anymore, and dragging them together is torture for each other. It’s better to just break up. Even if your girlfriend says that it might be better for you to coax her off for a while after the breakup, they will break up sooner or later. Why not waste everyone's time? Find someone who is devoted to you. Someone who truly loves you will not break up casually.
2. Have a good talk with your girlfriend
Many boys only notice that when their girlfriends quarrel, they say that they feel tired after breaking up, but they do not reflect on the frequency of quarrels and whether they often break up. Every time we quarrel, we break up. What was the reason for your quarrel? It was you who really violated some of her bottom lines, threatened her dignity or something else. If there are frequent quarrels and she talks about breaking up every time, and the reason for the quarrel is irrelevant, it may mean that her temper fluctuates greatly and she does not take it seriously.
Summarize the reasons for each quarrel (don’t attribute the reasons only to her bad temper). Although she must be responsible, there must be reasons on your side. Try to change your own problems. Bad habits and so on. Because people can only change themselves, you cannot ask others to change.
At this time, you should actually have a good talk with your girlfriend. The two of you should have more in-depth communication, and don't usually laugh and muddle along. , cover up the vaguely aware problems in your heart, and always face what should be faced. Find a calm night, when both parties are in a good mood, quietly talk about the matter, and talk about your worries and worries about her. Talk about your sadness every time you are broken up, talk about your suspicion and helplessness every time, talk about your understanding of her, and if she is also serious, you can also talk about solutions to the problem.
In fact, communication is the best solution for girlfriends to break up when they have a quarrel. The worst possibility is that if she really doesn’t have you in her heart, an in-depth communication will expose the problem and lead to a real breakup. This is also your blessing. At least you know the truth and are not deceived. You must turn around gracefully.
