No matter how loving a couple is before marriage, a cold war may occur after marriage. Generally speaking, a cold war requires one party to take the initiative to give steps, and the other party will follow the steps, and then the cold war will be over. But if a cold war always involves one party bowing first, it will be tiring and lead to the continuation of the cold war. How long will it take for a couple to have a cold war without feelings? Here, the editor just wants to warn everyone that couples should not wait until they are no longer in love to regret it.
1. The couple had a cold war for eight days
Mr. Silent: We are in a cold war now. Our cold war lasted for two or three days at first, then four or five days, and then the longest was seven days. Today is the eighth day. Anyway, every time I couldn't bear it, I took the initiative to apologize, no matter what the reason. But this time, I don't want to apologize anymore. I want to test the bottom line of her cold war, and I am already prepared for the worst... In the past, I like to talk about problems and discuss them together, and I also like to resolve quarrels immediately, but my wife likes to have a cold war! Ignore me. I couldn't accept this method at first, but now I'm getting used to it. Isn't it just a cold war? If you don’t want to solve it, forget it. Who can’t do a cold war? hehe! This time I will not give in.
2. The cold war between husband and wife for a month
Talkative Mr. Zhou: The cold war between husband and wife hurts the most feelings. , more serious than a fight, and often a cold war over trivial matters, and no talking unless coaxed. In fact, both parties feel uncomfortable. You should persist in this situation for a month. The longer it goes, the more problems will arise. So I still have to coax. Take the initiative to speak and communicate.
Actually, my wife is a very nice person and she chose it herself. She would give it 98 points out of 100. It’s just a fatal flaw. He is very face-saving and has strong self-esteem. He doesn’t care who is right or wrong. Anyway, if you don't talk first and keep the cold war to the end, it's just a shame. All for little things. I have been married for eleven years, and since the initial conflict, I couldn't stand being together under the same roof for three days. It was too depressing and depressing. It was coaxing every time. No matter who is right or wrong. I always lower my head and lower my posture. Men. But I also have a temper. Over time, I have developed antibodies and can persist without speaking for more than a month. Usually my wife is quite virtuous and takes care of others. But his fatal flaw is that he is very angry and can make people lose face. Don't look back. Do not admit defeat. Don't take the initiative to show kindness. Every time. I know there is no right or wrong in my family! Men should be generous. Just love your wife. Just lower your attitude. But after all, the parties involved are sometimes a little bit weird when it comes to what they do. This is something I've encountered recently. After the quarrel, I stopped talking. I was too lazy to coax him, and felt tired. As expected, it has been almost 25 days, and I still feel like I have to bow my head first, alas.
3. The husband and wife have been in a cold war for two months
Heartbroken: Our husband and wife have been in a cold war for two months now. It's been more than a month, and I plan to keep the cold war going for now. Because the children are still young and don’t want to make big moves. In fact, we have all thought about divorce, but what about after divorce? She has no principles eitherThe only thing wrong with sex is that it doesn't really care about me. Moreover, the reason for the cold war in the first place was a quarrel. I have forgotten even the reason. She basically gets embarrassed every time and gets sulky for no apparent reason. Can't we communicate better? I planned to leave when I was 17 years old and lived outside for half a year. Later, she begged me to come back. I also thought the child was too young, so I came back. My requirements are not high, I just hope she can be more understanding and considerate of me. I am really tired of always being in such a cold war.
How long will it take for a couple to fall out of love after a cold war? This depends on different couples and different reasons for the cold war. In fact, no matter the man or the woman, it is not recommended to have a cold war. This is torture to each other. Wouldn't it be good for two people to sit down and communicate, talk, laugh and love each other?
