We all know that girls tend to be insecure and have difficulty trusting each other in relationships. They are afraid that boys will have contact with other members of the opposite sex and feel that the other party may have another relationship. If boys come back late at night, they will wonder if they are with someone else. On a date; when a boy gets a little impatient with her, he will say that the other party doesn't love him... Under such pressure, boys will sooner or later be unable to bear it. How to change a girl’s lack of security? What kind of sense of security do girls want?
1. Arguments and anger should not be left overnight
It is normal for lovers to quarrel and get angry, but if the follow-up treatment is not handled well, the quarrel will destroy the accumulated faith and trust. It will fall short. In fact, for a girl, the connotation of her quarreling, getting angry and breaking up means: I've been a little lonely recently, please come and comfort me. And quarreling and getting angry can't be left overnight, just rub it in and let it go. If she loves you, how can she be willing to leave you?
2. Keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex
Sometimes a girl is angry because she is not too sensitive, indeed Some men go too far and flirt with other girls even though they already have a girlfriend. Even a normal girl would not be able to accept this situation. Of course, it doesn't mean that you can't have contact with other people of the opposite sex after falling in love, but it does mean that you should keep a distance, grasp the scale, and avoid any ambiguous situations when in contact.
3. Share everything about you with her more
The sense of security a girl wants is your life, your heart, everything about you. She wants to know about you, and she wants to see you. Just show her your cell phone. If you really don’t have anything, it doesn’t matter if you look at it. Girls are all a little suspicious. This is the nature of women. They are very different from men. Careful girls have this nature to some extent. , it can only show that she cares about you.
4. Take her to meet her friends’ parents
If you really value the girl and find a way to do it, then Just take her to meet more of your friends. Besides friends, they are also parents. If you are rushing to get married, why not let her meet your family directly and let your parents know each other. This can also give the girl a sense of security and make her feel that you really love her.
5. Give her hope for the future
For a mature girl, some sense of security comes from the future and material needs you give her. She is running with you when she is with you. Go with the future in mind. After all, every girl wants to have a bright future. Some people may ask, how can we give her a future? What kind of future does she want to see? The future a girl wants is not how rich you are. , how powerful you are, and you are in the process of fighting for the lives of the two of you, and the process of working hard to realize your wishes. This process of hard work is what she wants, if you are as lazy as a pig with nothing to do every day. Watching others make money and still complaining when they leaveIf there is a backdoor or something, the day will come when your girlfriend leaves you.
The sense of security a girl wants boils down to giving her the feeling that you love her very much and you will not leave her. There is a bright future between you... This kind of relationship will make a girl follow you wholeheartedly and believe in you.
