When a girl suddenly treats you coldly, it is mainly because you have not created enough attraction. In other words, you cannot arouse the girl's emotions when chatting. Below I’ll teach you two tricks to arouse girls’ emotions.
1. Distinguish girls’ emotions
The process of building attraction is actually one of observing girls. In the process of emotional changes, when you have a higher status in a girl's heart, then you can successfully establish attraction.
Before that, we need to distinguish girls’ emotions. Girls’ emotions are simply divided into two types, one is negative and the other is positive.
1) Negative emotions: Generally refers to the dissatisfaction of girls in life or the dissatisfaction caused by certain things.
When girls have negative emotions, they usually place their hopes on him when they meet an attractive boy, hoping that he can listen to them and understand themselves, and get emotional catharsis.
On the contrary, when she meets a boy she is not attracted to, she is unwilling to talk about it and vents her negative emotions to the boy in order to be happy for a while without considering the boy's feelings.
2) Positive emotions: Generally, it means that girls use interesting things or certain things in life to make themselves happy.
When they are in positive emotions, girls often give boys a better response, such as sending photos, sharing or showing off their happy things.
When many boys see a girl responding well, they often mistakenly think that this is a sign of favor from the girl. In fact, most of the reasons are just because the girl is in a better mood at the time.
2. Distinguish a girl’s attitude towards you
If you want to distinguish a girl’s attitude towards you, the key point is whether its focus is “you”.
For example:
Negative emotional outlet:
Girl: I saw a man on the street today who was really disgusting. He was a scumbag. Her His girlfriend cried and refused to let him leave, so he left with another woman who looked quite rich. Boys are all like this now.
To attract your attention:
Girls: I saw a man giving his girlfriend to her on the road today. I’m sorry, you said that some boys nowadays are really scumbags. They dumped their girlfriends and left with another rich girl for money. Do you think such people are bad?
Among the two methods above, the terms "boys now" and "some boys" intentionally avoid attacks on boys. "What do you think" is to test boys' opinions and care about boys' opinions.
