The love period of every relationship will not last long, and it will eventually enter a dull period.
This period is when couples are most likely to break up, because after entering the dull period, many boys will feel that the girl is already theirs and there is no need to maintain their relationship. In the end, the girl had a psychological gap and felt that the boy didn't love her anymore, so she broke up with her.
So how to maintain the relationship after the love period so as to regain the feeling of love?
1 .Find out the common hobbies of two people and create romance and surprises
For example, if you like sports, get a couple fitness card and spend time together once a week; if you like watching movies, make an appointment to watch them together, or Lie on the sofa and watch on weekends; like cooking, choose to go home early one day, buy food, enjoy the process, and find common topics.
2. Try new things
When two people try new things together, life will become very interesting. They can develop new hobbies and can do many things with each other. , this seems to return to the feeling of being in love again.
3. Don’t look at problems negatively
When many people are in love, they actually have no regard for themselves. What about confidence? Once there is a slight disturbance, you will feel that the other party is disgusted with you. Just like if you want to go on a date with the other person on the weekend, but the other person refuses you because he was too tired the day before and wants to rest at home, you may feel that the other person does not love you anymore and is not willing to go on a date with you. . Such negative thoughts will cause cracks in your relationship. Therefore, when you are in love, you must think on the bright side of everything and don't be too negative.
4. Create more opportunities to meet.
During the off-peak period, the time and number of meetings and dates will plummet, which often leads to a weakening of the relationship. At this time, both parties need to create some meetings. opportunity to "keep the relationship warm". No matter what the two of you do, having a meal together or taking a walk together are both good choices.
In addition, some love habits should be persisted, such as saying good night before going to bed, such as hugging, these are good ways to keep the relationship warm.
5. Take time to understand each other’s life circle
After the relationship enters a dull period, two people will The main reason for the lack of a common language is that both parties are immersed in their own small circles. After a long time, there is nothing to say. Try to join her circle and add some common topics to review your dating experiences when you were in love, so that you can reheat your relationship and regain the feeling of being in love.
When feelings enter a dull period, all you can do is travel through the past and remind yourself that this is a lesson for growth. Stop obsessing about changing the other person, but actively learn and grow, see yourself and the other person through the relationship between you, and shift your focus from attacking yourself and the other person to creation and action. Only in this way can you cultivate your true ability to be happy. Let your relationship finally return to the stage of love.
After all, happiness is in your own hands, not in the hands of others. If you feel tired of getting along with each other, return to your heart and ask yourself if you have already done what you want. Good enough? As the saying goes, if you want to love each other less tiredly, you must first change your cognition.
