Although scumbags are spurned by many girls, it is undeniable that scumbags never lack girlfriends. Why is this? Why do girls like scumbags? What is so good about scumbags?
1. Invest in yourself
Many people save money and spend money to buy this and that for their partner. How many people are thinking, I have to invest in myself and improve myself to make her like me sincerely?
Most people are always wondering why I paid so much for her. , she still broke up with me? After an analysis, I came to the conclusion: Sure enough, girls worship money and look at face.
Actually, there is nothing wrong with giving for the other person in love. She breaks up with you not because you are poor, but because of human nature.
Before getting together, a girl will be attracted to a boy because of his appearance, temperament, conversation, and cultivation. This is called attraction.
And if you don’t have these things, but you chase a girl by being nice to her, then maybe the other person is just moved.
But being moved is not love after all. Even if you save money and buy Dior and Chanel for her, when you are only willing to buy a pair of shoes worth two hundred yuan for yourself, you have already lowered your worth. .
You gave her the best, but forgot to be good to yourself. But she will get used to your kindness, and she will gradually become alienated from the ordinary you.
But if you are wearing AJ, can she still buy you two hundred yuan of shoes?
Look at the so-called scumbags, who doesn’t feel like you? Are they the best? Where do they get their confidence?
Because they can give themselves the best material life and can be independent. When they can live well by themselves, they are attracted to them. There will be more and more outstanding people, and there will be more choices.
They don’t have to sacrifice themselves for each other, they will only become better together.
This is probably what is called if you bloom, the breeze will come.
Of course, this kind of investment is not only material, but also spiritual. Invest more in yourself while you are young.
Whether it is learning new skills to increase your salary or developing new hobbies to enrich your life, outstanding people will shine.
You can go down to the dust to love someone, but no one will love you in the dust!
< h2>2. Transmitting signalsScumbags have always known how to send signals correctly. The following methods of sending signals by scumbags are worth learning from.
First, send a signal that you have a good impression of her, and show herShow yourself.
For example, take the initiative to care and show your warm and masculine side.
Male: Seeing as you seem to be working overtime lately, I just bought a few packs of coffee. It tastes pretty good. I’ll send you two packs tomorrow.
Female: Yes, it’s not the end of the year, and there are a lot of things going on in the company. Thank you.
Male: You’re welcome. If you like it, tell me and I’ll recommend other flavors.
Female: Okay, it seems you know coffee very well.
Male: I understand a little bit. If you need anything, you can ask me anytime. take care of yourself.
For another example, learn to observe the other party carefully, feel and listen to the other party's needs.
In fact, this is a psychological tactic. Without knowing the other party, you use your strong observation power to feel her heart through the other party's dress, language, movements, etc.
Girls are very susceptible to this. After all, they are creatures dominated by emotions.
3. Stay rational
Indeed, it is not easy to stay rational in relationships. How can we fall in love when things are too rational?
But it has to be said that those who fall in first become very passive.
Sometimes feelings need to be exchanged. It does not mean that one party has to pay all the time and the other party enjoys it.
Instead, you need to look at the other party’s feedback and then adjust your proactive strategy.
Even if you meet a girl you like, you should get to know her step by step, judge whether she also likes you, and then decide whether to continue the relationship.
Before you determine a girl’s attitude, don’t treat her wishfully, otherwise you may end up being issued a good person card.
So how can we make ourselves rational?
Control our own needs while releasing goodwill signals!
In the early stages of getting to know each other, many boys are eager to Looking for progress, I can’t wait to confess to the girl right away.
But how do popular boys generally behave?
Even if the relationship is relatively close, they will not immediately make intimate requests such as holding hands or hugging. But it makes girls feel that being with them is particularly interesting, and they are attracted to them.
This is to control the sense of need. First, use the attitude of being a friend to let the girl put down her guard, build attraction, and gain the other person's favor.
