In the previous generation, marriage may have been the only way for everyone, but today is different from the past. Many people born in the 90s are no longer willing to accept this idea and are bound by marriage. What is the reason for this?
Why are more and more post-90s generation unwilling to get married?
1. High social pressure
There is no doubt that the post-90s generation is indeed a relatively miserable generation. . Some netizens ridiculed that tuition fees are reduced for primary school graduates, house prices rise after college graduates, and there is no career editor when you start working. It seems that those born in the 1990s have been struggling but always missed opportunities.
In addition, it was reported some time ago that the average debt of the post-90s generation is 100,000, which means that even though many people seem to be working hard, they are still full of debt. This is also based on the development of the Internet. Many people born in the 1990s began to consume in advance before they had a job. They always believe that the debt they incurred through consumption in advance will be paid off quickly after working.
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Wages have not increased, and housing prices and living expenses have been rising, causing many people to live under high pressure. And many people have a consensus that if you can't afford a house, you may not be happy even if you get married. Because of various moves and the dual pressure of work and life, the stability of the marriage is affected. Unlike the love between parents, as long as two people love each other, they can be stable for the rest of their lives.
2. Have a strong fear of marriage
This type of people is mostly caused by their parents. Nowadays, the divorce rate is rising every year, whether it is 70 The divorce rate remains high among those born in the post-80s and post-90s generations.
I believe that most people who have experienced the breakdown of their parents’ marriage still have some resistance to marriage. It's not that they don't want to get married or fall in love, it's just that they are afraid that their marriage will not last like their parents' marriage. They have experienced emotional setbacks once and do not want to experience them a second time.
In fact, it is precisely because our own living standards are constantly improving that we have more time and space to think about our marriage partners. , have higher requirements and awareness for the quality of life. It’s not that we don’t value marriage, but it’s precisely because we value marriage that we don’t want to just find someone to spend our lives with.
