It is said that the first three months of a relationship are the time when the honey is in the relationship and the oil is in the oil. So, is it normal if a relationship goes into a dull period after a month? If it feels dull in such a short period of time, is it because the two parties are not suitable for each other, or because they don't love each other enough? If a relationship enters a dull period after a month, how will the relationship continue?
1. See if you are comfortable getting along with each other
Some couples’ love is a long-term one, which is tepid from the beginning to the end. The occasional romance will be deeply remembered. There are also those that start out vigorous and then become more and more boring. Therefore, the key to love is not when it enters a certain period, but how it can reach the end comfortably. If you are very comfortable and harmonious with each other, it is normal for the relationship to enter a dull period after a month.
Second, see if you can share each other
Everyone's relationship is different, it may be It's a bit dull, but isn't that what life is like. Maybe you were chatting with her today, ah, the price of beef has increased and you can’t afford it. Tomorrow she will tell you that her cup broke and she should buy another cup. Although this kind of sharing between lovers is plain, you enjoy it as much as you can. As for the Internet saying that the period of love lasts three months, the key is not whether it is one month or three months, but whether you care about each other and whether you will share every detail of your life with each other. When you shared things with her, she asked you, so you said it, no. It must have started like this, Hey, what am I telling you about? I saw someone on the street... and I couldn't help but share it with her. Because you want her to know everything that happened to you, and she thinks the same way.
3. See if you are disappointed in love
At the beginning of a relationship, both men and women will have doubts about love. Beautiful longing, we felt tired every day when we were together in the beginning, we gave each other small gifts every month, and were considerate of snacks, facial cleanser, toothpaste and other small things in life. I felt that my current relationship contained all the beautiful fantasies about my other half... so we were together. I wish I could give the whole world to her, and feel that I am the happiest person in the world. Sweet love finally comes... But slowly, I will encounter some small things in love, and then be disappointed in love, so I fall in love. It's only a matter of time before we enter a dull period.
Why does a relationship enter a dull period after one month? In fact, the more you invest in this relationship, the higher your expectations will be, the more dissatisfied you will be, and the more disappointed you will be. When she gets used to your bright spots, she will find that they are not particularly bright at all. But it doesn't matter, as long as you spend this time with her and be more patient and tolerant to her, her enthusiasm for you will come back.
Therefore, it doesn’t matter even if your relationship goes into a dull period after a month or nine, the key is whether you are still in love.If there is information about each other and goes on for a long time, you will know the final outcome.
