Whenever you chase a girl for more than three months, let me tell you, there is basically no hope. What I say is a bit absolute, but the fact is that the shorter the time period for chasing a girl, the higher the success rate. This is the conclusion I have drawn from the experience of many brothers. I will analyze the reasons for you in detail below.
Why can’t girls chase for too long?
Based on the above conclusion, if you can catch a girl within a week, the success rate of catching her is greater than the success rate of catching a girl in a month, and the maximum success rate in a month is As for the success rate, as long as it is greater than the success rate in one year. If you have been chasing a girl for more than a year and still haven't caught her, then I want to tell you that your chances of turning around are less than 20%, and you don't even have the qualifications to be a spare tire.
Why is this? Because once you haven't caught up with a girl for more than a week, your basic attractiveness will begin to decline, and no matter what you do later, it won't have a big effect. This is the so-called attraction. A person can quickly feel happy towards a stranger of the opposite sex. This attraction comes very violently and leaves suddenly, because it is an emotion. If you do not upgrade it in time, then He will fade immediately.
You must have had a similar experience. You have met a girl. She has a very good attitude towards you. When you send her a message, she will reply to you instantly, and she will even take the initiative to ask you. To understand you, you and she talk about everything for a certain period of time and are very close, but suddenly one day later, she will never take the initiative to come to you again. When you go to see her again, Her attitude is very cold, and you don't even know what you should talk to her. At this time, the two of you are no longer in the same state as before. They never talked about anything but nothing to talk about. But at this time, you will find that you have already You fall in love with her and you plan to pursue her, but you find that there seems to be an invisible obstacle between you and her. Why does this happen?
Regarding these issues, it is difficult to explain to you in just a few words. I can only tell you the conclusion. Chasing girls is like Sail against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat. If you don't develop a relationship with her in time when the heat is very high, then you will inevitably enter a cold period, and once you enter the cold period, it will be difficult for your attraction to work again.
In other words, when we pursue girls, we must strike while the iron is hot. Don’t think that girls will definitely reject you if you have known each other for too short a time. If a girl tells you that we have just met, we haven’t met you yet. Be prepared, then don't drag it out anymore, because she has no intention of continuing with you.
