I see many friends asking how to have a long-lasting relationship. From my point of view, first of all, you need to have a mature concept of love. So today, the editor is going to explain to you what a mature view of love is. If you are still unclear, let’s take a look together.
1. Introduce your friends to each other, so that you can get to know each other better, because birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. What kind of people, what kind of friends to make.
2. Praise the other person for doing something good. I think Westerners do quite well in this regard. They like compliments and don't think they don't need to say sweet words just because they are an old couple. Say more if I love you!
3. If the other person says something that makes you angry or uncomfortable, you should tell him or her specifically why you are angry and don’t let them guess.
4. Don’t fight in a cold war, it must be resolved on the same day.
5. You cannot love someone more than you love yourself. Generally, people who have this phenomenon do so because they are not confident enough in themselves. You feel that he will leave you at any time, so put all your attention on him. Spend more time on yourself and improve your interests and hobbies.
6. Don’t try to control your partner. If he really wants to do something bad, you can’t control him at all. On the contrary, the more you want to control him, the more “rebellious” he will be.
7. Trust is not something you ask for, but something you earn. Have more trust and both parties must be honest with each other.
8. Falling in love is still falling in love, but there are more important people and things in life. Family ties, friendships, work, social interactions, and love can all be on the same front and should all be taken seriously.
The above is what the mature concept of love that the editor brings to you today should look like. Do you all know it?
