Before the content begins today, I would like to ask the boys, what is your ideal girlfriend like? I have also seen many boys say that they hope their future girlfriends will be gentle and kind, sensible, independent, and intermittently dependent on themselves. They can play games and exercise together, plan future blueprints, listen to themselves when big things happen, and preferably be able to give advice. Create surprises for yourself, be beautiful, have a good figure, and be good at cooking. And when you encounter difficulties, you can use her wisdom and talent to help you solve problems.
I want to believe that most boys should think that this is an ideal girlfriend, but if such a girl really happens to you, then you may have to reflect on what aspects of yourself can attract her and keep her. ? Is it because you are particularly good at chatting, or because you have special talents, or because you are so humorous that girls always take the initiative to seek you out, or because you can make girls go on an emotional roller coaster and follow you wholeheartedly.
What should I do if I feel inferior in front of the person I like?
Later I also asked some boy friends and they said When they meet such an ideal girl, their first thought must be whether I am good enough, so they will feel inferior in front of the person they like. Of course, boys themselves also want such a girl, so they think about whether they should wait until they become better before pursuing such a girl. Then will the girl ignore me? How can I establish a relationship with such a girl in a short time? Intimate connection?
So what I want to say here is that if you really meet your ideal girl, and it’s not easy to get this opportunity, you should take it if you have the chance, because boys who are better than you are still hesitant. Think about whether you are worthy or not, so there are really very few people who dare to approach. Then everyone is hesitant. Only you take the initiative. After all, you are afraid, hesitant, and have low self-esteem. In the future, she may be behind a man who takes the initiative. The little woman.
If you think about what I said carefully, boys can really pursue girls they like and have high scores. After all, if you walk with outstanding people, your progress will also be leaps and bounds. If you feel low self-esteem and difficulty even getting close to the girl you like, and you can't take that step, let alone how you can meet the girl's heart through chatting, then how can you have a chance?
Summary: If you meet a girl you like, no matter how good she is, you can't back down because of low self-esteem, let alone I thought about chasing her after I became better. Let’s not talk about whether she will be pursued by others after you become excellent. If you didn’t dare to pursue her from the beginning, can you be sure that you can become excellent? Will you dare to pursue her after you become a good person? To put it bluntly, your inferiority complex is just a lack of courage, and whether you become outstanding or not has no direct connection.
