When a girl takes the initiative to tell a boy that she has dysmenorrhea, she must be seeking comfort from the boy, but many straight men will be at a loss and don't know how to coax a girl. The editor below will tell you how to comfort boys when girls have dysmenorrhea.
1. "Put your belly over and let me rub it for you and feel sorry for you for a second."
Be a When a girl tells a boy that she has dysmenorrhea, most straight men's responses are in the direction of solving the problem, thinking that as long as the problem is solved, they can win the girl's favor. However, such a reply is not what girls want. of.
Girls are emotional animals and like to communicate with emotions and like to talk. So when a girl tells you that she has dysmenorrhea, she is actually just talking to you because she feels uncomfortable and a little irritable. . You are not asked to solve this problem, and this problem is not something you can solve. You just need to give appropriate comfort.
Therefore, if you have not entered the ambiguous stage yet, you can reply with a slightly comforting reply: "I feel sorry for you for a second." What this sentence expresses is: I know you are uncomfortable, and I share your emotions. This way, you and her have an emotionally united front. At the same time, you didn't show too much concern. After all, when the girl is not your girlfriend, being too caring will actually reduce your points.
If you and this girl have entered the ambiguous stage, then you can reply with a more ambiguous sentence: "I'll stretch my belly over and rub it for you." This is a somewhat ridiculing sentence, because the belly cannot be stretched out. At the same time, this sentence contains ambiguity, because the action of rubbing the belly is a slight physical contact.
2. "Then I can't take you to eat XXX, what a pity"
Girls with dysmenorrhea At that time, there were often many food taboos, such as not eating cold food or drinking alcohol. Many people will think that you must not describe these things to girls at this time, let alone ask girls to eat these things.
In fact, on the contrary, if you want to be that cool man who is different from others, you must use such reverse thinking to do things that other men would not think of.
For example, you can describe to a girl a delicacy that she can’t eat now: “What a pity, I can’t take you to eat Haagen-Dazs ice cream now. I saw ice cream in a store today. Awesome!" Then he sent the photo to her to fully arouse her appetite, but she struggled to eat it. If a girl sends a tearful emoji, you can comfort her: "Be good, I'll take you to eat when your period is over." In this way, you take the opportunity to plant the seeds of a date.
Something similarThere are taking girls to drink cocktails, go swimming, etc. It can create expectations in girls without appearing too pleading. Because you took her to eat, drink and have fun, it has the meaning of comforting her depressed mood at the moment.
When you do this, the girl will feel that you are a very interesting and cool man, and that you are a warm man who knows how to give her a wonderful dating experience.
In fact, no matter if you meet a girl who is depressed or has dysmenorrhea, as long as you can show your "boyfriend power", she will surely fall in love with you slowly.
