Some people come together because they like each other, and some people come together because they are suitable. So for a relationship, which one is more important, suitable or like?
Generally speaking, Generally speaking, if a person has never experienced love deeply and just finds a suitable person to get married, the stability of his or her marriage will be relatively poor.
Because it is easy for him or her to be curious about what love is like in the long married life.
Even if there are no worries in life and the husband and wife get along harmoniously, once he meets the person who is passionate about him one day, there is a high chance that the peace of the marriage will be broken.
Either you want to live for yourself and get divorced impulsively, or you make the mistake of betraying your family.
But for a person who has experienced the sweetness and bitterness of love, he will be more comfortable starting a family with a suitable person, and he will even take the initiative to find that suitable person.
Because he already knows that falling in love and getting along are two different things. His past love experience has made him understand himself and his needs better. , knowing what kind of person you are with can make you feel more stable and satisfied.
Therefore, if you marry a suitable person, the marriage stability of someone who has experienced love will be much stronger than that of someone who has never experienced love.
In fact, the most beautiful thing about marriage is that whether two people come together because they like it or because they are suitable, "family love" can be cultivated between two people.
You see the lightning and thunder outside, but the other person has not come home yet, and you are worried about him and afraid that he will get caught in the rain. This is the love of family. In marriage, it is much more reliable than passionate love.
In short, if you haven’t experienced enough love, you might as well let yourself experience it more. Don’t rush to find a so-called suitable person. Otherwise, you will either be itchy for the rest of your life, or you will miss the person you love when you meet him. When getting married.
Moreover, when you have no experience, you cannot accurately judge whether the other person is really suitable for you.
If you have experienced enough love and you feel that the marriage partner in front of you is suitable for you, then you can trust your choice. Family love will gradually develop between you and him as you live together.
The premise is that two people have completely passed through the three stages of passion, running-in and stability, have mature conflict handling mechanisms, and are sure that they are suitable for each other, instead of being entangled in the abuse of falling in love and killing each other. When you are in love, you try to solve the problem by getting married.
If you and the other person love each other very much but there is a problem of not getting along well, or you have met a good marriage partner but cannot cultivate them.If you have feelings, you can add and send me a private message about your situation, and I will help you analyze it.
