An introverted boy may have a great time chatting with familiar friends and be as thick-skinned as a city wall, but when he meets a girl he likes, he will become very restrained and unable to let go. The editor will talk to you about how to solve this situation.
How do introverted boys chase girls?
In fact, in a word, it is to jump out of your comfort zone.
To sum up, introverted boys never want to communicate with the outside world. They are very withdrawn, have their own little world, and are also very honest.
If a boy like this suddenly asks you to talk to the girl you like because he usually has less contact with girls, then you will definitely feel a little unnatural and shy. When you get along with children, because everything is normal and you don’t feel anything at all, it’s very comfortable. You will feel that it is better to stay with your friends. It is naturally comfortable and playing games and masturbating is very enjoyable. But this is actually the most fatal moment. Like boiling a frog in warm water, the comfort is only temporary. One day you will have to face the girl you like. At that time, the discomfort is the most painful and the most tortured time for your mind.
So how to solve it?
So first of all, we need to communicate more with the girls around us, regardless of Whether you like her or not, make more female friends of the opposite sex. Not everyone has to develop in that direction. You just need to communicate with them more, meet with them more, get along with them, etc. etc.
Now if you are directly asked to meet the person you like, it is impossible to chat more, because doing so will kill you and make you feel more uncomfortable. You have to be more positive. Participate in some public activities, such as some small lectures organized by the campus, join a friend group at the same school, or attend some offline small gatherings, etc. When you do these things, you will notice changes in yourself, and slowly you will find that you can be comfortable in front of the people you like.
For introverted boys, chasing girls is difficult at the beginning. As long as you take the first step, it will be much easier after that. Every time you take courageous training, you are growing.
