Catching up is a common method in modern society, but sometimes girls will suddenly give up when boys are pursuing them. What should boys do at this time? This article will introduce it to you from many aspects.
1. Rational analysis of the reasons
When a girl suddenly gives up, the boy should calmly analyze the reasons. It may be that your behavior or words make the girl feel uncomfortable, or it may be that the girl does not have enough favorable impressions of you. Only rational analysis can find solutions to problems.
2. Stay in touch
Although the girl has given up, the boy can still keep in touch with her. You can chat with her through WeChat, phone, etc., but be careful not to disturb her frequently. At the same time, you should also respect her wishes and don't force her to go out.
3. Change yourself
If a boy finds that his behavior or words make a girl feel uncomfortable, then he needs to change himself. You can learn how to communicate and express yourself better, and improve your cultivation and quality. Only by becoming a better version of yourself can you attract girls to pay attention to you again.
4. Give space
If a girl makes it clear that she no longer wants to pursue her, the boy should give her space. Don't forcefully pester her, and don't leave frequent messages on Moments or social media. Respect the girl's decision and give her enough time and space to think.
5. Start again
If after a period of time, the boy finds that he still has feelings for the girl, he can try to pursue her again. But be careful not to repeat the same mistakes. You still need to rationally analyze the reasons, change yourself, and respect the wishes of girls.
When a girl suddenly gives up, the boy should stay calm, rationally analyze the reasons, and take corresponding measures. No matter what the final result is, we must respect the girls' wishes and become a better version of themselves.