Falling in love with a simple but defensive girl requires a lot of patience to catch her, because this kind of girl will be very sensitive to the approach of the opposite sex. No matter how you approach her, she will choose to deliberately avoid you.
No matter how many love skills you have, there is nowhere to put them to use, so how should you pursue a girl who is innocent but defensive?
1. Don’t let her feel pressure
No matter what you do, you must first consider her, take good care of the girl, and make the girl feel dependent on you. It's not about letting her feel the pressure of you pursuing her.
For example, when some boys chase girls, they just think about it - how to hold hands with a girl? How to have physical contact with a girl? How to be ambiguous with a girl on a date?
These expose you Every move you make with a sense of need will make a naive but defensive girl feel like you want to take advantage...
A defensive girl will not give you this opportunity easily, so the more you want to advance the relationship, , on the contrary, it will make her stay away from you - ignoring you when chatting, always avoiding you when dating...
2. Untie her
For a girl who is innocent but very defensive, you must be patient. If you really want to be with her, you must stay by her side and help her untie her knot. , let her no longer be defensive about you.
A girl who is innocent but very defensive generally tends to have an avoidant attachment personality. She longs for love but is also afraid of emotional dependence. She herself is also very painful when facing true love, and she Be patient when getting along and stay with her as much as possible.
Slowly understand her past, and at the same time let the girl understand your sincerity better. When you get to know each other, you will start a new emotional relationship.
3. Be sincere to her
A simple but defensive girl is very insecure and wants to To develop a romantic relationship with her, you must gain her trust!
Don’t lie to this girl. Once you tell a lie, she may never want to believe you again. You will become more defensive.
In the process of getting along with her, you must be sincere to her and make her feel that you are trustworthy, reliable, and worthy of entrusting your affection.
And this process is often slow and requires testing. She may use some tricks to test you. If your sincerity is just a formality, it will be difficult for her to trust you 100%. .
