Some girls are obviously single, but when faced with the pursuit of boys, they always use the idea of ??having a boyfriend to make the boys retreat. What does this mean? Do girls decline because they don’t want to accept the pursuit of boys? Or does a girl say that having a boyfriend is a test of a boy’s perseverance in pursuing her? If a girl is a test, what should a boy do?
1. Clarify the psychology of girls testing boys
In fact, when girls find out that the boy they like also likes them, they are ecstatic inside. , but in order to prove the other person's feelings for him again and again, he will use such a routine to test the boy to see if he has the perseverance to pursue himself. Of course, smart boys will judge whether the girl has a boyfriend from various details in her life, and then really launch a pursuit offensive. I believe they can win over the girl in minutes.
2. Use humorous answers to get through
No matter having a boyfriend is a test or a real rejection, I have to say it’s a little embarrassing. At this time, boys need to use humorous answers to get rid of this embarrassing context, and girls will also like you:
1. Alas, I am again If I don’t compete with you for a man, why are you nervous? We are good friends.
2. I didn’t see it! You actually have a boyfriend. Congratulations, someone has taken your order! (Although such an answer will make girls punch you with their little fists, I have to say this. This way of teasing can indeed resolve the embarrassment of the moment)
3. Your boyfriend must have saved the galaxy in his previous life, otherwise how could he have pursued such a considerate girl like you? It seems that I want to You worked hard! (I praised both the girl and her "boyfriend". Although the relationship may not work out, it left a good impression)
3. Continue to pursue her
Now that you know that girls say having a boyfriend is a test for you, then it depends on your performance. You should continue to care about the girl, treat her sincerely, chat with her, and ask her out on a date on the weekend... As long as the girl doesn't refuse your invitation, it means it is very interesting. Moreover, girls enjoy the feeling of being pampered. If it rains, they will pick her up in person; if they have a stomachache, they will go to see her; if they have a cold, they will accompany her to the hospital... it will always touch her heart.
Boys, don’t back off just because a girl says she has a boyfriend. Maybe this is just an excuse for the girl. If your temporary withdrawal makes a girl feel that your feelings for her are so weak, that's not good. In addition, you must learn to judge whether a girl is telling the truth or not when she says she has a boyfriend, so that you will not get it wrong at the beginning and it will be really embarrassing.
