Nowadays, boys chasing girls like to give gifts to show their sincerity to the girl, but sometimes the girl will accept the gift if you don’t give it, and you may also be rejected if you give the girl a gift. But if a boy gets very upset after a gift is rejected, what does it mean for a girl to refuse a gift? Is it because you don't like me? Is there any hope of catching up with the girl if she refuses the gift?
1. The value of the gift exceeds the relationship
If a girl refuses a gift, it may be that the gift you gave exceeds the current relationship. Before I tell you in detail, I would like to ask all the brothers, what are the gifts you give? What kind of gifts do girls get? I once met an older brother who gave a girl an iPhone as soon as he met her. The girl was so frightened that she not only refused to accept the gift, but also blocked him directly. In fact, there is an idea that girls refuse to accept your gift. The gift you gave is too expensive and goes beyond your current relationship. You said you just met, but if you give her a mobile phone case, it’s more or less the same. If you give her a mobile phone, the girl will definitely think too much and feel that this person is too purposeful. Obviously, so never give a gift that goes beyond the scope of your current relationship.
2. Girls don’t want to owe favors
As the saying goes, you have short hands. There is another reason why girls refuse gifts. She just doesn’t want to owe you a favor. In fact, to put it bluntly, she just doesn’t like you. When she refuses your gift, she is also refusing to have an ambiguous relationship with you, because you find that sometimes the gift you give is not expensive, just a Ordinary keychains, cups, etc., but the girl won't accept them. Actually, it's because she doesn't feel like she owes you a favor, because after all, you two are not lovers, and she doesn't feel comfortable accepting your gifts. Too appropriate.
I didn't mean that at all, so I clearly refused... to the extent that I wouldn't go out to see him or take the things he gave me. He said he put it on the table outside for me, and I told him to take it away quickly. Even if you put it outside, I wouldn't be able to bring it in. It's useless. But when my boyfriend chased me, I also felt that way about him, so when he gave me gifts, I accepted them with peace of mind.
3. Be polite to a girl
Sometimes a girl may refuse a gift just to be polite to you. Why? Because she actually likes you and also likes the gifts you gave her, but she is afraid that if she accepts your gift directly, you will think that she is just interested in my gift, or that she is a girl who worships money very much. , or the girl’s reserved mentality will not allow her to accept your gift immediately, so if the girl refuses the gift for a short time, she will give you a push and pull.
A girl’s refusal of a gift mainly reflects the above three situations. Boys can check which situation they fall into to know whether they still have a chance to pursue the girl.
