Licking a dog is a very popular Internet term, which means that a person has no dignity, kneels down and licks others without asking for anything in return, and in the end gets nothing. This is the so-called licking the dog until there is nothing left in the end. So how to avoid becoming a licking dog?
1. Change the pleaser personality
< p> When Li Gou is chasing a girl, he has a fixed thought, that is, the better he treats the girl, the more the girl will like him. So I listen to the woman's opinion on everything, everything depends on the woman, what to eat tonight, where to play, which to buy, whether this dress looks good or not, I always say: I listen to you.What is the difference between this approach and best friends? What women want is not to respect opinions, but to be led by men.
Women may like pugs, but they do not like men who look like pugs. Don’t care too much about her opinions. Seeking approval is just a low-value behavior and a low profile.
When you can lead her, she will be conquered by you. Instead of being nice to her without any principles, and finally stepping into the friendship zone and becoming good best friends, I hope my brothers can be more domineering.
2. Don’t think that spending money can buy love
People often say that talking about money hurts feelings, and it is true , in the relationship between the sexes, if you excessively express "I have money, I can spend it on you", you are likely to be passed by girls!
For example, often go to high-end restaurants to eat, buy famous brands for her, and provide transportation , shopping, watching movies, these may seem like signs of favoring, but in fact they also indicate your lack of confidence in your own charm.
Girls can understand it as: "You won't like me because of who I am, so I need to spend a lot of money to make you like me!", and then they think of you as someone who has nothing through their powerful brainstorming ability. A person of security.
Of course you can throw money, but you have to throw it on the edge!
Let’s put it another way, if you If you really spend money on a girl, do you dare to marry her?
The first thing you should learn is to improve your charm, use your own characteristics to attract her, and attract her to invest in you. This investment can be energy, time, or even the thing you want most.
3. Don’t expose your sense of need
What is a sense of need? It’s like being hungry for 30 A strong man in the sky suddenly finds a piece of bread. He will not say "Hello, I want to eat you~" to the piece of bread. He will eat it without hesitation. This is called the sense of need.
In the stage of getting to know girls, no matter you are hungryHow many days passed without being able to show his hunger or thirst.
The more you make a girl feel that you need her, the lower your emotional status will be. Not only that, girls will also have strong social pressure and resistance, and they will most likely list you as Enter the friendship zone or the dog-licking list.
Attraction is mutual, love is equal, and relationships are like playing table tennis. If you push too hard, the other person will not be able to catch it, and if the other person is not strong enough, they will not be able to pass the net.
