When girls cry, it may be because they are hurt, lost, or under too much pressure. As her friends or lovers, we should try our best to comfort and make her happy. Let’s take a look at the specific methods below.
1. Listen to her voice
When a girl cries, the first thing we have to do is listen to her voice. Don't interrupt her or try to solve the problem. Just listen to her quietly and let her express her inner feelings. This will make her feel seen and understood, which will lessen her burden.
2. Give a warm hug
When a girl cries, a warm hug can play a very good comfort role. We can hold her gently and let her feel our love and support. At the same time, you can comfort her appropriately while hugging her and tell her some words of encouragement.
3. Accompany her through difficulties
Sometimes girls cry not because of a specific thing, but because of inner pressure and exhaustion. At this time we can accompany her through the difficulties, do something she likes together, or go for a walk in a beautiful place. This allows her to temporarily forget her worries and relax.
4. Provide practical help
If a girl is crying because of a specific problem, we can provide practical help. For example, help her share some work pressure, or provide some suggestions for solving problems. This will allow her to feel our support and help, thereby easing her burden.
5. Use humor to resolve embarrassment
Sometimes girls cry because of an embarrassing scene or mistake. At this time, we can use humor to resolve the embarrassment and make her laugh out loud. Also be careful not to hurt her self-esteem.
When a girl cries, we should first listen to her and give her a warm hug and comfort. If the inner pressure is too great, we can accompany her through the difficulties; if it is a specific problem, we can provide practical help. Finally, use humor when appropriate to resolve awkwardness. Only by truly paying attention to and understanding her can she truly be happy.
