I have been having an affair with a girl for a long time, but suddenly one day, the girl became cold, indifferent to me, and slow to reply to messages. What is the reason for this, and what should I do? ?
When a girl suddenly becomes indifferent to you after being ambiguous with you for a long time, it is generally due to the following reasons:
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1. Freshness
It may be that your freshness has passed and girls will no longer pay attention to you, or it may be that you are not attractive enough. There are very few things that girls are attracted to from you, and they will gradually become attracted to you because they are not enough. Girls will start to lose interest in you. Brother, you need to analyze the reason and find a way to solve it.
2. Cognition Awareness
First of all, you should have some deviations in your understanding of ambiguity. Ambiguity is when the lover is not satisfied, and above friends, it is when we move from the stage of being friends. We are in the transitional stage of becoming lovers. If we are always in this transitional stage, the girl will not understand what you want to do. Are you using her as a backup or something? What we want is not an ambiguous relationship, but a relationship with her. The relationship between the girl and the girl is getting further, so in many cases a long period of ambiguity will be unbearable for the girl. Don’t let the girl wait too long.
3. Lack of sparks
There are two possibilities. One is that you have been ambiguous and have not taken it further. The relationship will gradually reach a low ebb; also, if a girl has someone she likes, she will naturally become indifferent to you. Such men and women need sparks to be together. You have been ambiguous before but it has not continued to rise. After a long time, it will lose its freshness. Or maybe she found someone she liked. My advice is no matter what her current situation is. You should all let yourself live a wonderful life.
4. The time window is closed
Female ambiguity actually has a time limit , if you don’t seize this window of time, she will slowly fade away. If you don’t take the initiative to warm up, her high mood will become cold. If there is a window, just go up without hesitation. In the end, The one who regrets it is himself.
Therefore, many boys should actually seize the ambiguous moments in time, attract them in time, create sparks for love in time, and heat up the relationship. Don't make girls wait too long. If a girl is willing to be ambiguous with you, it has actually proven that she still has feelings for you, so seize the window of time in time to break this ambiguity and get closer to the girl.
