We often say that women are more reserved than men who take the initiative, so if you like a woman, you must take the initiative to lead her, otherwise a reserved woman would rather miss it than take the initiative. Then do you know why women are reserved? What does it mean for a woman to be reserved? Only by knowing you do you know how to pursue a reserved woman.
1. What is the meaning of reservedness in women?
The meaning of reserve in the relationship between the sexes is that a woman has a confident attitude, decent behavior, a sense of proportion and distance, and is intended to express her love to men. She's not the kind of weak woman who can be manipulated by men with ill intentions to take advantage of her. The reason why many women are reserved is because they don't want to leave a bad impression on men, think that they are casual, and are afraid that men will not cherish her. There is nothing wrong with women having this kind of thinking.
But if a woman is overly reserved, some problems will arise. For example, some women will ask: Why did the man who was very enthusiastic in chatting with me before gradually become less interested and ignore me after several appointments? , is it because they don’t like themselves? In fact, the root cause of this problem is not that men don't like women, but that men feel that women are reserved and don't like them, so men just don't care.
2. How to pursue a reserved woman
In fact, the reason why women are reserved is, in a certain way, Because she is unwilling to give in to you and has no better partner. What's more, you may not even be a backup, she just enjoys the feeling of being chased. You know this yourself, but you just don't want to admit it. You try to convince yourself with "reservation and slowness" to give yourself the last hope. So how should you pursue such a reserved woman?
1. Improve yourself. Including dressing up, humor, career, fitness, etc.
2. Expand your social circle. Let there be no shortage of women in your circle, especially women who like you.
3. Don’t hang yourself from a tree. Three-legged toads are hard to find, and two-legged women are everywhere.
4. Appropriate indifference and rejection. You will not cherish the air because you know you can have it at any time, even if it is important to you; you will go to the train station in advance because you know the train will not wait for you. Let a woman know that her rejection may cost you you, and let her know that she is not the most important thing in your life. Don't talk to her every day. When she talks to you, you should occasionally refuse. Don't make yourself look cheap.
5. Let her know you have other options. If you can't ask her out, ask out another woman. A man who is surrounded by beautiful women is not at the same level of attractiveness to women as a man who has no friends.
6. Relationship upgrade. Ordinary friends can make a date. Don’t talk about why you can’t make a date. If you can’t make a date, talk less.Frequency, your chat is not free, and she cannot enjoy your kindness to her while being indifferent to you at the same time. Once she tries to win you back, you take the initiative
7. Put your career first. There is no shortage of excellent women around rich people. When you have a successful career, you will find that there are no reserved women at all!