Many boys clearly want to pursue girls in the right way, but accidentally become a bitch. The result is naturally unsatisfactory. In fact, there is a big difference between chasing a girl and licking a dog. Let me share with you what is the difference between chasing a girl and licking a dog?
The difference between chasing girls and licking dogs
The difference between chasing girls and licking dogs is actually mainly a matter of mentality.
The pursuit of girls is mainly appreciative. I like you, and I treat you well so that we can both It has good emotional value. I pay for you because I want to pay for you, so that we can get along more comfortably. I don’t want any feedback from you. If you are passionate about me, I will be even more passionate about you. If You are indifferent to me, but I don’t have to do it with you. With this mentality, you won’t feel a lot of pressure chasing girls, nor will you deliberately pursue a result, nor will you ask girls to respond to you instantly, accept you, like you, and girls will be very relaxed when getting along with you. There is nothing wrong with it. Pressure, girls like to get along with you, and you will naturally have more opportunities to show yourself.
As for dog licking, it is mainly demand-based liking. I like you because you like me. I am good to you because I hope you can give me feedback. I take the initiative to chat with you. It is to get your reply. If you are enthusiastic to me, I will be more enthusiastic to you. If you are indifferent to me, I will use more enthusiasm in exchange for even a little feedback from you. This kind of dedication based on girls' feedback will be exposed. A strong sense of need will make girls feel that this boy is very anxious and has a strong purpose. Girls will naturally be wary of this boy and slowly stay away from him, without giving you any chance to show their attractiveness.
In fact, chasing girls is a very happy thing. The person who chases enjoys the pursuit, and the person who is chased enjoys it. When it comes to the pleasure of being pursued, both parties will have a good emotional experience, going back and forth. But if your mentality changes, from chasing girls to being a licker, then the relationship will also deteriorate. Constantly being nice to girls just to let them remember your efforts is essentially a selfish and demanding behavior, which will make girls feel strongly disgusted.
Chasing a girl is essentially an exchange of emotional values. It is to make both parties happy, not to get a certain girl and make her your girlfriend. It is really important to learn how to chase girls correctly. Never chase a girl just because you are nice to her. This is the lowest value and may even have the opposite effect.
