Sometimes even if you feel that you have established a relationship with a girl, because your relationship is almost the same as that of an ordinary couple, you always feel that there is a lack of ritual to confirm the relationship, and the girl does not admit that she is. Your girlfriend, what should you do? How is a romantic relationship confirmed between a man and a woman?
1. There is a process of confirming the relationship
Some people say that for a man and a woman to confirm a relationship, one party needs to confess, and then the other party agrees to confess, so that it can be regarded as confirming the relationship. But in fact, many times we don’t recommend confession, because it feels too official, and it may not be successful, and it can easily be self-defeating. So how do men and women determine a romantic relationship? In fact, as long as there is a process of confirming the relationship, it will be enough. Here are some examples:
-Are we together? -Okay
-Can you be my girlfriend/boyfriend? -Okay
-Are we boyfriend and girlfriend now? -Of course
The example given may be very blunt, but that’s probably what it means! There is a process of confirming the relationship so that the other party will not think that you are just in an ambiguous state. And if you don't confirm it at the beginning and the other party just treats you as an ambiguous object, you won't be able to get angry. Because there is no identity confirmation between you from the beginning, your relationship is ambiguous, and you can't accuse the other party at all.
2. Take you to meet her friends
If the relationship between a man and a woman has not been confirmed, then The other party will definitely not take you to meet her friends. Because whether they are together or not is a matter between two people, but taking you to meet her friends shows that she is willing to let you participate in her life and does not mind her friends knowing your existence. It’s also a validation of your relationship. When others ask about your relationship, she/he will take the initiative to say that she/he is my boyfriend/girlfriend. If the other party acquiesces without your consent, then your relationship has actually been confirmed.
Because when the other person really likes each other, they will introduce him to others very naturally, and the other person will accept the invitation with peace of mind. Therefore, this is also an important sign that two people have established a romantic relationship.
If she is willing to take you to meet her family, then she will consider you as a marriage partner.
In fact, the way to determine the relationship between men and women is really simple. If two people love each other, they may just say a casual sentence. can determine the relationship between you. For example: Are we dating now? yes! But if you don't really love each other, even if you have intimate contact, even if you have sex, it may just be an acquaintance.
