When chasing girls, many men are very enthusiastic. They want to ask girls out to meet each other every day and stick with girls all the time. Does this kind of day and night relationship really promote the pursuit of girls? Meeting every day will not only help Producing aesthetic fatigue will also weaken the pleasure brought by emotions due to the diminishing marginal effect.
Therefore, many people are emphasizing that playing hard to get is the best way to chase girls. Why do they say this? Let’s discuss it together!
1. Intermittent effect
The intermittent effect is very important for chasing girls. Of course, some people also call this method "indulging in lust". In short, chasing girls Girls don't need to make appointments every day, but they need to know how to cool down appropriately.
For example, if a couple has been separated for a long time due to work and other factors, when they get together again, they will feel as if they have been separated for a long time and are newly married. This is the result of the exhaustion effect. Another example is if you haven't worn a piece of clothing for a long time, and you occasionally find that it is pressed at the bottom of the box, so you take it out and put it on again, and you will feel very fashionable again.
Due to the intermittent effect, girls will pay too much attention to you because of your proper cooling. This kind of emotional stimulation will help your relationship make positive progress.
Such an effect cannot be achieved by making appointments with girls every day.
2. Create surprises
Chasing girls and meeting them every day will make them love you more and more. If you are familiar with each other, then the tacit understanding between you will deepen, which seems to be a good thing, but it will also prevent you from bringing surprises to girls!
Because girls know your thoughts and whereabouts very well. , then her prediction of your next behavior will be very accurate, so there will be no surprises.
Therefore, if you know how to indulge in lust with a girl appropriately, being close for a while and distant for a while, you will have the opportunity to "prepare" for surprises and give the girl the warmth of love when she is unexpected.
3. Maintain the threshold
The five colors are blinding, the five tones are deafening, and the five flavors are refreshing. Racing and hunting makes one's heart go crazy, and finding rare goods makes one's journey difficult. ——"Tao Te Ching"
Playing games is fun for a while, but playing games all the time is not fun.
Because continuous excitement will increase your pleasure threshold, the same is true for emotional communication. If you keep dating girls every day, over time you and the girls will feel that this is normal. If you want to make a girl happy, you need to increase the level of stimulation, take her to travel, shop, fly out of the earth... maybe this will trigger her sense of pleasure.
And appropriate indulgence in lust, you can effectively maintain the threshold, so that you can easily feel happy when you get along.
