Chasing girls is an exciting and nervous thing, but sometimes halfway through the pursuit, we suddenly find that we don’t want to continue. At this time, how should we deal with it? Let’s take a look at the thoughts of chasing a girl who no longer wants to chase her halfway.
1. Anxiety and contradiction
When you suddenly realize that you no longer want to pursue a girl , anxiety and conflicts may arise in the heart. You may be asking yourself, "Why don't I like her anymore?" or "Did I miss a good opportunity?" This feeling is normal, but it also requires calm thinking.
2. Explore the reasons
Before giving up, you need to explore why you no longer like this girl. Is it because her personality and interests are not in line with yours? Or were you disappointed because you had too high expectations for her? Finding out why can help you better understand yourself and avoid similar mistakes.
3. Be honest with each other
If you have started dating this girl, then you need to be honest with her. Tell her what you really think and don't let her misunderstand your intentions. This avoids hurting the other person and maintains a good relationship.
4. Don’t force yourself
If you have decided to give up pursuing this girl, then don’t force yourself. Don't continue dating her because of loneliness or other reasons. This will only waste each other's time and energy.
5. Look for new opportunities
Giving up does not mean failure, on the contrary, it is a new beginning. You can put your energy into other things, such as study, work, or hobbies. At the same time, you can also look for new opportunities to get to know more people, including girls.
In the process of chasing girls, we need to stay awake and rational at all times. When we find that we no longer like a girl, we need to explore why and be honest about it. The most important thing is not to force yourself and looking for new opportunities is the best choice.
