It is normal to pursue a girl and be rejected. After being rejected, just change your goal. But if you still can’t let go after being rejected, how should you continue to pursue it?
1. Adjust your mentality< /h2>
When you fail to pursue a girl, you must understand the truth. Pursuing a girl is not about cheating, but about attracting the other person through your own charm. The first thing you have to do is to adjust your mentality and emotions. Attitude is everything. If you want your relationship to change, you must correct your attitude. Don't keep stalking, but give the other party some free space.
If your attitude becomes very bad, it will leave a bad impression on the girl. If she thinks you are a bad person, she will be even less likely to have a good impression of you, and she may be blocked directly. You, no matter how much you pursue it, it will be useless. It's best to keep a suitable distance, guard her side silently, wait until the other party doesn't care about confessing, and then find an opportunity to chat with the other party, so that you can have a chance to develop further.
2. Get along as friends
After the pursuit fails, the girl may react very coldly to you. But if you don't make it clear that you hate you, then you can't disappear without a trace after failure, but slow down the frequency of getting along with girls. If you give up directly, the girl will feel that you are not determined enough, and giving up so easily means that you are not so sincere to her, and you will appear to be very insincere.
You must know that the love a girl wants is one that can withstand the test, rather than one that can be defeated with a little difficulty. Therefore, you should not be discouraged after failing to express your love. You must cheer up, appear next to the other person as a friend again, find a suitable way for you to get along, let the other person feel your kindness, and they will naturally be attracted to you. At this time, the probability of success is very high. .
3. Make yourself better
Being rejected by a girl means that you are not charming enough, so The other person cannot be attracted to you. Good communication can promote the relationship between people, so try to change yourself and make yourself better. No matter what kind of improvement it is, whether it's appearance, personality or three views, if girls see your changes, they may become more interested in you and want to try to understand you.
Therefore, you should read more, learn how to talk to girls, and constantly enrich your inner world. This is a necessary condition for continued pursuit. It is best to enrich your experience, so that you will have a steady stream of topics to talk about with the girl you like, make yourself interesting and fun, and behave like a gentleman, so that the other party will think you are excellent, and it will be easy to get her once she is attracted to you. love.
