Exes should be something that many couples are unwilling to mention. Many couples often quarrel over the issue of their exes. So why would a woman never forget her ex? In fact, there are only two reasons why a woman cannot forget her ex: < br/>
1. Rumination psychology
There is a word in psychology called rumination, which means rumination. Certain things we experience, certain thoughts we dwell on in our minds.
Most women will be immersed in negative emotions and situations after a breakup, and like to experience those painful scenes, memories and feelings over and over again. In fact, this is because of rumination.
Maybe she didn’t have deep feelings for her ex, but the constant recall and repeated mention made her feel that it was all a pity and made her care about these losses, thus amplifying her feelings of lovelorn. pain. It even made her feel that the relationship between herself and her ex was not over yet.
2. Nostalgia
Everyone will have "nostalgia", which is normal Psychological complex refers to an individual's recollection and longing for the past.
A large part of the reason why a woman always misses her ex is due to her inner "nostalgia". Nostalgia is an escape from reality, and it is also a longing for things that cannot be realized.
When a woman quarrels with you, it becomes more obvious. The strong contrast between her ex and her current one made her feel that she had lost an excellent ex. The more she thought about it, the more unwilling she felt.
In fact, after a breakup, when a woman thinks of her ex, she will beautify it, and her brain will automatically ignore the shortcomings and magnify the advantages. Maybe when we are really together, the relationship is not really that good. But who knows that women are animals prone to random thoughts.
Faced with such a situation, what you have to do is to try to avoid quarrels, let alone mention your ex and her ex for no reason, let alone compare your ex with her.
After all, your ex is just the past tense, just be yourself and manage your relationship well. So when you find that your partner is still obsessed with her ex, don't be so harsh. After all, your ex cannot be avoided. Maybe she doesn't mean anything and is just paying attention.
A relationship is a matter of two people and cannot be completed by one person alone. No matter who is right or wrong in a relationship, the key is how to resolve it. If we encounter a problem, we are used to blaming the cause on the other person and always asking the other person to make changes. Then we reject an opportunity for self-growth.
A good relationship is not about you finding a perfect partner, but about two people being in a relationship.Continuously grow in an intimate relationship and become better people.
